I wouldnt be so desperate to make new male friends.
I have dumped most of my male friends almost two years ago and i have told myself not too long ago that i dont want to have new male friends and im good with the ones i have now. However, due to my super social nature, i cant help but get to know new people, i usually avoid it to go anywhere but when the new cat is interesting, i cant help but connect with him.
However when you are an adult, you are not just interested in connecting with someone who makes you laugh, you are more interested in connecting with someone who helps you grow. The truth is that the majority of males are uninteresting people, its hard for you to find other cats who are into self development. I am more interested in giving and receiving value. For example, me and one of my best mates were rolling the other day, then he told me to go see his cousin, we went to his cousin house, next minute we started talking about sports and then the conversation is getting more and more interested and i found out that he is got a post graduation degree in sports and health (some shit like that) and that he works as a personal trainer. Latter on we arranged a deal where i would pay his gym membership and he would give me personal training in the gym with non additional value (what a deal, a gym membership is 50 dollars per month and personal trainers charge that money per hour). So this cat became part of my circle by being my personal trainer. Talking about this, i have also met another cat two weeks ago who is giving me programming lessons for almost nothing.
Resuming, im more interested in getting to know people that bring value to my life then guys who are bringing fun.
Plus i am an international playboy, i dont stay around a lot, most of these cats dont even have money to go to a local nightclub, i cant see them keeping up with being my friends, they can't afford my lifestyle (i am talking mainly travelling here).
I have dumped most of my male friends almost two years ago and i have told myself not too long ago that i dont want to have new male friends and im good with the ones i have now. However, due to my super social nature, i cant help but get to know new people, i usually avoid it to go anywhere but when the new cat is interesting, i cant help but connect with him.
However when you are an adult, you are not just interested in connecting with someone who makes you laugh, you are more interested in connecting with someone who helps you grow. The truth is that the majority of males are uninteresting people, its hard for you to find other cats who are into self development. I am more interested in giving and receiving value. For example, me and one of my best mates were rolling the other day, then he told me to go see his cousin, we went to his cousin house, next minute we started talking about sports and then the conversation is getting more and more interested and i found out that he is got a post graduation degree in sports and health (some shit like that) and that he works as a personal trainer. Latter on we arranged a deal where i would pay his gym membership and he would give me personal training in the gym with non additional value (what a deal, a gym membership is 50 dollars per month and personal trainers charge that money per hour). So this cat became part of my circle by being my personal trainer. Talking about this, i have also met another cat two weeks ago who is giving me programming lessons for almost nothing.
Resuming, im more interested in getting to know people that bring value to my life then guys who are bringing fun.
Plus i am an international playboy, i dont stay around a lot, most of these cats dont even have money to go to a local nightclub, i cant see them keeping up with being my friends, they can't afford my lifestyle (i am talking mainly travelling here).