God bless Tuthmosis for posting links like this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfr...tners.html
I should know by now to never click on a link he posts, especially when I know it's going to take me to a page that exemplifies the beta condition. When it comes to posting stories of extreme beta, Tuthmosis is like this little gremlin sitting on your shoulder shouting "you thought it was bad mother fucker? Look at this one!" And like a child with a fork and a nearby electrical outlet, you know what the result will be, but you shove that bitch in all the way with your hand firmly grasping the metal handle. When the new page opens, your faith in humanity falters once more.
The LTR notch count comparo is basically when a beta finally gets a piece and he feels the need to fuck it up by taking part in a discussion of the number of sex partners he and his old lady have had.
I got burned by this when I was younger. You think you're taking your relationship to the next level by being "open and honest." Then she of course drops a nuke right on your "tender moment" when she points out that her headboard/bedpost/etc had so many notches that it crumbled to pieces. Like most of the poor saps in the link, you try to rationalize it. But that offers superficial comfort.
"Relationship experts" are mostly feminists who think that honesty and openness are essentially to a health LTR. They fail to point out that they're married to betas who harbor intense cuckold fetishes.
The LTR notch count comparo is probably one of the worst conversations you can have with a woman you're banging. Nothing good comes of it. NOTHING. And one thing leads to another, so the next thing you know, she told you that she banged 7 guys, but there were actually 4 or 5 more because she counted the 5 man gangbang she participated in right before she started seeing you as only one, because after all, it happened in the same setting.
As I said, nothing good comes from it.
If you ask her, you're practically begging her to go out and fuck someone else. It's beta. The mere concern is a sign of insecurity.
If she raises the subject, she's shit testing. If you're good at comedy and mocking her, tell her something absurd like 900. When she says "no, seriously, how many?" Stick with 900. She'll get grumpy and pout, but she'll drop it (if she's worth keeping.) If she continues to be pissy about it, she may drop her own number unsolicited, just to get a reaction. If she does, dump her ass.
Even if your own notch count is in the high double digits, you shouldn't tell her. It can show high value, but it also removes some mystery. A dark, sordid past trumps notch counts.
A guy should never raise this topic because it always suggests beta insecurity. But what do you do when they raise the topic? A simple answer is best. "I don't know, or I don't recall," are great. She assumes you should know the exact number. So the only reason you wouldn't know is if you've really had a lot. She may feign disgust, but in reality it increases your value. If you follow up with "I prefer not to dwell in the past (pause) mine or yours", it deepens the mystery surrounding you and makes it clear that you have no interest in discussing guys she's banged before.
So, don't ask, don't tell, and if she tells anyway, dump her immediately.
Would you feel better if you knew your old lady fucked 9 guys, blew 12, and took it in the ass from 2? I'll just settle for knowing I'm not with a virgin.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfr...tners.html
I should know by now to never click on a link he posts, especially when I know it's going to take me to a page that exemplifies the beta condition. When it comes to posting stories of extreme beta, Tuthmosis is like this little gremlin sitting on your shoulder shouting "you thought it was bad mother fucker? Look at this one!" And like a child with a fork and a nearby electrical outlet, you know what the result will be, but you shove that bitch in all the way with your hand firmly grasping the metal handle. When the new page opens, your faith in humanity falters once more.
The LTR notch count comparo is basically when a beta finally gets a piece and he feels the need to fuck it up by taking part in a discussion of the number of sex partners he and his old lady have had.
I got burned by this when I was younger. You think you're taking your relationship to the next level by being "open and honest." Then she of course drops a nuke right on your "tender moment" when she points out that her headboard/bedpost/etc had so many notches that it crumbled to pieces. Like most of the poor saps in the link, you try to rationalize it. But that offers superficial comfort.
"Relationship experts" are mostly feminists who think that honesty and openness are essentially to a health LTR. They fail to point out that they're married to betas who harbor intense cuckold fetishes.
The LTR notch count comparo is probably one of the worst conversations you can have with a woman you're banging. Nothing good comes of it. NOTHING. And one thing leads to another, so the next thing you know, she told you that she banged 7 guys, but there were actually 4 or 5 more because she counted the 5 man gangbang she participated in right before she started seeing you as only one, because after all, it happened in the same setting.
As I said, nothing good comes from it.
If you ask her, you're practically begging her to go out and fuck someone else. It's beta. The mere concern is a sign of insecurity.
If she raises the subject, she's shit testing. If you're good at comedy and mocking her, tell her something absurd like 900. When she says "no, seriously, how many?" Stick with 900. She'll get grumpy and pout, but she'll drop it (if she's worth keeping.) If she continues to be pissy about it, she may drop her own number unsolicited, just to get a reaction. If she does, dump her ass.
Even if your own notch count is in the high double digits, you shouldn't tell her. It can show high value, but it also removes some mystery. A dark, sordid past trumps notch counts.
A guy should never raise this topic because it always suggests beta insecurity. But what do you do when they raise the topic? A simple answer is best. "I don't know, or I don't recall," are great. She assumes you should know the exact number. So the only reason you wouldn't know is if you've really had a lot. She may feign disgust, but in reality it increases your value. If you follow up with "I prefer not to dwell in the past (pause) mine or yours", it deepens the mystery surrounding you and makes it clear that you have no interest in discussing guys she's banged before.
So, don't ask, don't tell, and if she tells anyway, dump her immediately.
Would you feel better if you knew your old lady fucked 9 guys, blew 12, and took it in the ass from 2? I'll just settle for knowing I'm not with a virgin.