they have to find it on their own time. you are having the same reaction as many people do when learning a new skill. the same happened to me when i dropped a lot of weight. i wanted to show everyone how easy it can be.
you are right to want to help, but rather than speak overtly and give unsolicited advice just let any of them who want advice come to you. unsolicited advice is rarely well received, even if it is well meaning, correct and justified. just be quietly successful. people who are ready to learn from you will seek you out.
it hurts to watch friends fail and be miserable while you have the answer. get used to it, its something that everyone aggressive about self improvement experiences frequently.
you are right to want to help, but rather than speak overtly and give unsolicited advice just let any of them who want advice come to you. unsolicited advice is rarely well received, even if it is well meaning, correct and justified. just be quietly successful. people who are ready to learn from you will seek you out.
it hurts to watch friends fail and be miserable while you have the answer. get used to it, its something that everyone aggressive about self improvement experiences frequently.