Quote: (04-15-2012 12:56 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:
Quote: (04-15-2012 10:42 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:
@OGNorCal: Please upload other episodes you find interesting. Hopefully ones with game that isn't quite so painful to watch!
Okay, here is an example of a guy that I think has pretty good game. There are a couple other episodes I've seen where guys had better game, but in those cases those guys were probably better looking than their dates, whereas the guy in this episode isn't bad looking by any means, but I'd say that his girl is a point or two above him. I find the chick in this episode to be pretty damn fine, although a little too tan.
One thing I've noticed is that the dates where things go well, they seem to hit it off right off the bat from the first look, impression, hug. The episodes where the date doesn't go well and there is zero attraction, there is normally a super awkward or dry greeting with either a cold "buisness-like" handshake, or an uncomfortable brief hug with hover hand. Sometimes you can straight up see the look of disappointment on the woman's face, or in her body language.
Right off the bat with this episode, the guy gets a good greeting, he opens the door with a big ole smile and says "there she is" and gives her a hug, then does an elbow touch when pulling back, he then claims that he never caught her name (prob b.s.), and then gives her a slow double handed handshake when making a formal intro. This all equals good kino and rapport building, and good impression right off the bat.
The guy does a good job of putting off a chill, friendly, light and playful vibe. He seems to have a positive attitude and he keeps convo flowing, balancing talking and asking her questions. He teases her playful, and does a good job of handling her shit tests. She keeps on trying to accuse him of being a player, and he does a good job of playing it off, while not agreeing or denying, coming off as confident and honest at the same time.
Now my critique, from the get go, I thought this guy needed to step up his fashion game, the outfit he's wearing to meet her is whack (to his defense it was prob over a decade ago). Next dude probably could have escalated sooner at dinner, but he did a good job of escalating at the bar. Next, probably what really fucked him, was that he had the cat in the bag, everything was sewed up, but he got too "nice guy" at the end. This chick was wanting an "alpha" to go caveman, she had it for a min, but then dude swtiched up and got all "sensitive beta" at the end, in RVF talk, "her pussy dried up."
The date recap just goes to show, how fickle women can be.
good game, but bad style....just like you said. Can't believe guys go on a date that way..