enjoyment of game ruined by flakiness?
06-16-2023, 02:59 AM(This post was last modified: 06-16-2023, 03:16 AM by BadwolfLives.)
(06-15-2023, 07:48 AM)naughtygaijin Wrote:(06-14-2023, 06:42 PM)BadwolfLives Wrote: All over the place. Chinese are pretty consistent except for maybe the cantonese and congers.
Yeah, that's mostly where my experience is. I lived in Guangzhou for a bit back in the day when it was still developing. Was an absolute shithole back then, shocking the difference now, absolutely night and day. But did play around in Beijing for a bit. Had a couple here in Japan from Shanghai and somewhere else in the north, might have been Harbin or Qingdao, forget now. Never had any luck at all with the congers, I never bowed to their pretentious bullshit. When the 1st or 2nd question is about your job or income before even asking your name I just tell them to fuck off.
I wonder if we knew each other, that's where me and the missus lived for 6 years.
(06-16-2023, 02:05 AM)fuckvolume Wrote:(06-13-2023, 04:26 PM)naughtygaijin Wrote: Also in much of the world, 1 hour late is nothing. LOL! Brazil and Peru I've personally had 2-2 1/2 hours late a lot, Philippines, 1 hour is common. Thailand, Japan, Taiwan not so much, they seem to be more respectful of other people's time. So not sure where you're gaming now, but 1 hour late isn't a big deal to me.
it's not simply "being 1 hour late", it is waiting for a random amount of time without even being sure that they'll actually show up, while youd have better stuff to do like starting to work on important project or eating and going to sleep so you can wake up fresh and full of energy to do your important projects of your life
but no, you just watch dumb shit on internet while waiting for an unknown amount of time for someone who has apparently no respect for you or is too dumb to manage his time
how does "humans" manage to be so extremely disordered ? are they unable to read what time it is and foresee how to use their time?
am I of extremely superior intelligence? are they all just a pack of dumb monkeys?
if this is what dating is (consistently being disrespected, constantly trying to manage other "people" disorderness so you can have sex with them once a month and sacrificing your other projects because you're always late because of other dumb ass monkeys...) then I'd rather go the badwolveslives' route and find only one good woman and stay with her
I think that would be best. I have a lot of hobbies that I'd rather be spending time on than 'game'. I don't worry anymore about women/time/money/food/sex/medical or friendship because you get all those with the right wife as long as you choose wisely. We've both went back to school together and studied nursing which was fun, now I don't need to worry about medical emergencies. It allows me to do whatever I want. I've been going to school for years now and pursuing a higher education and shes not bothered by it, she just goes to work and comes home without any issues and tells me to concentrate on my Masters. If you choose poorly and then you proceed to act like a single man, you can pretty much expect to live a horrible life. You've got to be at peace with your libido and choose a girl that you respect enough not to cheat on.
While I don't advocate choosing an ugly girl, I would think that choosing someone 1 or 2 points below the girl that causes you stress will free your mind. This song rings true.