enjoyment of game ruined by flakiness?
06-06-2023, 01:11 PM(This post was last modified: 06-06-2023, 01:16 PM by BadwolfLives.)
(06-05-2023, 10:25 PM)fuckvolume Wrote: I want to brag a bit and say that this year I had sex with about 5 women, all at least 6/10, and including one literal 10/10 top 1% of women, instagram-model level.
but in all cases, getting a date was a struggle, sometimes delaying the date for weeks for non-sense reasons
lot of flakes, many girls arriving late (up to 1h of delay....)
when I'm mean to see someone , I'm in constant fear of getting ghosted at the last moment, or that they'll arrive crazily late without even warning me... sometimes they take 3 days to answer my messages....
the whole interactions feels like I'm not respected and the constant uncertainty of the whole thing is making the whole experience of chasing girls and dating almost unenjoyable... the pleasure is reduced by like 90%, and there is a lot of irritation, disappointment, a bit of anger....
any tips on how to mentally deal with the fact that everybody seems flaky and unrealizable?
have you noticed any difference of reliability between white women vs third-world women?
Yeah, go to a place where they take dating seriously and women play for keeps. If the country you're in has women that act like this, they obviously don't value your time or think you're worthy of theirs. The dating world is a little different to poverty line women who see dating and marriage as a way out of a bad situation versus a bunch of retards who think casual sex is the norm. None of the serious ladies will let you within 10 feet of their trousers unless you're committed to raising a family with them. If you're just looking to bang a bunch of garbage, well get used to what you've got. I dated girls in the West with the same BS you got, then I dated RICH girls in other countries and experienced THE SAME. It's when I shifted focus to finding a wife and started dating girls from poorer strata that the game changed entirely and getting married and raising a family suddenly made sense. This strata does not exist in the Western countries, you need to go to a place where poverty means death and marriage means life.