I am Christian. I also like game. Not so much as when I was younger, but I'll never give it up and marry a fat girl who gets old and gross and sings hymns or whatever. Sorry Thora Hird doesn't do it for me!
Here's a couple of things I think about:-
1)All the openly "devoutly" religious women I've dated have turned out to be duplicitious and vile. Sometimes I was taken in by them, even over years. Had I "nailed my colours to the mast" I have no doubt many years of my life would have been wasted and I'd have been well and truly divorce raped - as I'd have believed their "non-materialist" pleas.
2)Early Christianity actually had sexually based cults. Think Kama Sutra and Devasi etc. But these are well and truly gone. Much like Kama Sutra philosophy and most Hindus. So are sexual activities outside of deliberate married procreation and Christianity competing practices? Can someone explain?
3)No sex before marriage worked fine hundreds of years ago. People married very young, died very young, died in childbirth and never left their village. Geographic mobility on happened in famines and wars. Again, how do people reconcile that with modern life. Some people here won't marry before 35 or 40! And their first marriage will be a disaster. Infact the most devout Christian male I know is 45 and still not married.
So what are the views of Christians and non Christians?
Here's a couple of things I think about:-
1)All the openly "devoutly" religious women I've dated have turned out to be duplicitious and vile. Sometimes I was taken in by them, even over years. Had I "nailed my colours to the mast" I have no doubt many years of my life would have been wasted and I'd have been well and truly divorce raped - as I'd have believed their "non-materialist" pleas.
2)Early Christianity actually had sexually based cults. Think Kama Sutra and Devasi etc. But these are well and truly gone. Much like Kama Sutra philosophy and most Hindus. So are sexual activities outside of deliberate married procreation and Christianity competing practices? Can someone explain?
3)No sex before marriage worked fine hundreds of years ago. People married very young, died very young, died in childbirth and never left their village. Geographic mobility on happened in famines and wars. Again, how do people reconcile that with modern life. Some people here won't marry before 35 or 40! And their first marriage will be a disaster. Infact the most devout Christian male I know is 45 and still not married.
So what are the views of Christians and non Christians?