Screen harder.
I'm going through a similar situation where my approach and spiking interest are good but I'm not closing or getting return calls for shit these days.
I'm thinking over my interactions and I think I'm not presenting myself sexually enough.
I think its in the mystery method but its like three Pilars that lead to seduciton:
--saftey
--humor/banter
--sexuallity
different combinations of the two put you in different places: creep, frendzone, devious, fuckbuddy, boyfriend, etc
And when I think back on my pre-relationship days I was very sexual and very objectifying in my interactions towards women and when I think about it now I can't recall any dickish comments by myself or outwardly/over-the-top objectifying of women.
My advice: ramp up your asshole comments, objectifying of women's bodies (say whats on your mind), with banter
60% sexual, 25% banter and teasing, 15% safety
Example from this weekend:
Snow bunny I met had that slim thick thing going on with her tits on full fucking display at a bar/club. She was fully into the beginning of our interaction and when I put some kino on her shoulders she mimicked back hard. But it was bad game from there I definitely ran out of banter and wasn't pushing the sexuality so thats a fast track to the friend zone--shes stopped responding the texts
Looking back at it now I should have stared at her tits and teased her relentlessly about trying to get attention, free drinks, etc.
Pulled her in close to straddle the side of my leg and pressed the sexuality of the interaction with escalating kino
hope that helps
I'm going through a similar situation where my approach and spiking interest are good but I'm not closing or getting return calls for shit these days.
I'm thinking over my interactions and I think I'm not presenting myself sexually enough.
I think its in the mystery method but its like three Pilars that lead to seduciton:
--saftey
--humor/banter
--sexuallity
different combinations of the two put you in different places: creep, frendzone, devious, fuckbuddy, boyfriend, etc
And when I think back on my pre-relationship days I was very sexual and very objectifying in my interactions towards women and when I think about it now I can't recall any dickish comments by myself or outwardly/over-the-top objectifying of women.
My advice: ramp up your asshole comments, objectifying of women's bodies (say whats on your mind), with banter
60% sexual, 25% banter and teasing, 15% safety
Example from this weekend:
Snow bunny I met had that slim thick thing going on with her tits on full fucking display at a bar/club. She was fully into the beginning of our interaction and when I put some kino on her shoulders she mimicked back hard. But it was bad game from there I definitely ran out of banter and wasn't pushing the sexuality so thats a fast track to the friend zone--shes stopped responding the texts
Looking back at it now I should have stared at her tits and teased her relentlessly about trying to get attention, free drinks, etc.
Pulled her in close to straddle the side of my leg and pressed the sexuality of the interaction with escalating kino
hope that helps
Attraction and passion are non-negotiable