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Bumping my own thread since Heartiste has been shut down and we need more on point game material. Here's another golden nugget from YaReally.

Nothing replaces going out. http://web.archive.org/web/2017071213121...ste-375384

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Women are better at this in social interactions because they train more at it, from the second they get tits, and even before that, they’re forced to learn to read people’s intentions, motives, behaviors, etc. Men, especially these days with the Internet for communication and Warcraft to replace face to face social interaction, tend not to develop much of this. It’s not that they’re incapable, they just aren’t in social situations as much, especially ones that involve sexual intent. A really hot girl gets hit on in subtle ways by practically every guy in her vicinity, even just going to the grocery store, whether it’s a blatant “hey baby” or as subtle as a cashier being extra friendly or men losing track of their conversation as she walks by or a beta male walking down an aisle at the grocery store just to look at her and hope she opens him.

But it’s a learned skill. Girls generally have a head start but if you go out and expose yourself to tons of social interactions, you’ll develop the same sense they have.

Say a decently attractive girl has around 5 interactions a day where she has to determine someone’s intentions (even if it’s the gay shitty flirting like a bus driver chatting her up, co-worker guy being extra friendly, etc.). On the weekend stack another 20 because she goes to the bar. She’s at 55 a week, 26,400 in 10 years and most of these are based around sexual intent.

If you went out 4 nights a week for a year and opened 10 sets a night, that’d be 1,920 new reference experiences in a year. Do that for 10 years and you have 19,200 reference experiences under your belt.

The average guy probably goes out what, once a month? And talks to MAYBE 1 new stranger a night if that? In 10 years that’s 120 reference experiences interacting with new strangers and learning their intentions and to read them etc.

Then when you throw in the person’s own intent, ie – for women this stuff is just in the background subconscious survival, for the average guy he’s not even remotely thinking about his interactions, and a PUA is specifically going out TO study these things and break down every interaction he has in Field Reports and work out kinks in his game and learning to read women’s sexual signals, etc., you can end up with situations where PUAs are better at “female intuition” than most girls are, which is the case for myself and most of the guys I know who have a lot of experience with women. Those women are 10 steps ahead of most guys but we’re 10 steps ahead of them…the best part is that because people view “female intuition” as some kind of magic sense only women have, they can’t even comprehend that we could be out-thinking them and that just makes it even easier. And because they can’t figure out how we keep being ahead of them, the frustration and challenge makes them attracted to us.

This is why we stress going out. You can read all the Manosphere blogs and Mystery Method and YaReally comments you want, but you will NEVER rack up a serious level of social experience if you aren’t going out regularly and purposely approaching.