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How to get over it?
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How to get over it?

Quote: (05-10-2019 05:36 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

I've had to dump probably what could've been a serious candidate for a wife, I've dumped a few girls who were in love with me, one just happened a few months ago where she wanted to get really serious, because she had another offer, and I said no and let her go.


Once you accept the fact that you can get hurt in relationship BUT you know you'll be fine and can over it, the faster you'll be able to heal quicker and move on.

Not quite the same situation or reason, but I have recently had to let go of a girl that means the world to me and I to her.

Knowing I'll be fine and that I will get over it is what keeps me going. I've been there before, I know what to expect. Its a cliche but time does heal wounds.

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Don - just keep doing what you are doing. You are on the right path. Years from now, this particular girl will be nothing more than a blip on the radar for you. A distant memory.

The key is to realize this right now.

Be angry, be sad, be emotional. Let it come over you. But at the same time, accept that you are feeling this way, and be rational enough to know you'll be fine, even though in this moment you don't feel fine.

Time. Give it time.

The girl I mentioned above would never even think of cheating on me. It is not at all my intention to one-up you or anything, but one day you'll find yourself in a situation where you have to let go of a girl who actually and genuinely loves you and who would move mountains to be with you.

A girl you are deeply pair bonded with.

Instead of a girl you think loves you.

Your current situation will help prepare you for the day that happens.

View it as something positive. I know, easier said than done, but that's what you need to do.
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