Quote:Quote:Because they do not own their mistakes.
So if it's so damn different for men at 40 than women then why isn't the forum flush with 40 year old guys jumping off with a stellar young woman? Why are some of the forum's top players with notch counts north of 100 having trouble locking down a quality breeder?
Most girls are smart enough to notice your flaws. They will be willing to forgive you if you give them what they are looking for in a man instead of trying to remake the world in your image. But if you are stubborn and are trying to impose your will on her "because a girl must submit to her man," this turns into a red flag.
If for example you are bitter and jealous and demand a girl never engaged with other men or social media, any girl with wits will run for the hills.
But if you give her what she wants in a man and subtly drop you dislike social media, she will delete it by herself.
If she does not do it immediately, she will eventually when she realizes you are the best boyfriend she has ever had and wants to keep up with you.
My conclusion is that those top players witb a 100+ notch count are not able to give women what they want in a partner. Therefore, girls they date make zero effort for them and eventually run away.
Have you considered top forum players have a high notch count exactly because they fail to give girls what they look for in a partner while demanding those girls submit to their every whim?
How would you respond if you were a woman?
So these men end up bouncing from one woman to the next. Becoming increasingly bitter and nostalgic. Even going as far as claiming that Western civilization is doomed or that there is an anti-male conspiracy.
But if you are 40 and have a high notch count, many girls gave you a shot, were intimate with you but eventually were scared off. They saw you could not fulfill their needs and decided they would be better off with someone else.
From their perspective, they gave you a chance. You just didn't take it.
And if you keep screwing up chances with girls who are willing to give you one you will get an ever higher notch count but spend the remainder of your years single.