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(04-20-2019 05:22 AM)sterlingarcher Wrote:  

So they got married, have had a baby and he seems pretty happy...

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- He doesn't really take care of himself or his style as much as he could

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Any tips?

Go to the gym with him, or begin doing a physical activity (eg. biking, rec sports league, Ju Jitsu) to encourage him to live healthy.

It is a universal positive thing to improve your health.
- It is an ideal excuse to take a moment for yourself because health is universally regarded as important.
- It will give you an opportunity to understand how his relationship is going and try to give him small parts of advice like "You don't need to take that BS"
- Being in shape will keep his wives' natural attraction to him. It will also get his sexual hormones and confidence up naturally.
- Drop him a few style tips here and there also.

I don't think you can red pill a blue pill guy on women who is trying to make it work with his wife and family.

If his marriage falls apart, at least he won't be fat and out of shape, and he will have something to devote himself to.