Personally, I treat online dating like passive income. It's pussy I get for just being who I am, I think it would be silly to leave it on the table. I only really get 6s and 7s but they're compliant and easy to manage. I just moved to a new city so it's solo night game and online dating for me right now.
I don't just want what I want. I want it, in the way that I want it.