Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
Sorry to say but stigma about online dating in Brazil is rapidly changing. For those of us studying Brazilian Portuguese just go on netflix almost every show and movie in Portuguese has something to do with online dating. They even did an 12 episode show in Portuguese where the entire plot rests on an online dating romance.
Just to put in context: A fellow forum member complained a lot about how his online game lead to basically nowhere in Rio and Belo Horizonte, and how “gringo value has eroded”. You can see the posts here:
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My whole analysis was trying to go a bit deeper in that…
But although I wouldn´t call it a stigma, I still believe online game will lead to much weaker results compared to any face-to-face game in Brazil. If someone try online game only, without putting effort in day or night game, will only scratch the surface of the whole gaming scenario in Brazil, so shouldn´t take big conclusions from that…
Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
Word is on the ground that many cities that previously sucked for online dating are now not so bad. I am heading to Belem in July and just out of curiosity I did one tinder boost got 100+ matches about 25-30 of them bangable and I'd say about 10 that were actually 7+ IMO, and I didn't bother messaging them since I wont be arriving for a while and a lot of them messaged me aggressively making it clear they were DTF, did the same thing when I set my tinder to Brasilia, same result. Just for the record i speak fluent portuguese though and my tinder/instagram is optimized to a near ridiuculous levels so YMMV.
Impressed with your Brasilia results, as usually girls from there tend to be less slutty (at least when in their home town). But no surprise regarding Belém… I already said in other threads: The Brazilian Amazon rain forest cities (Belem, Manaus, Boa Vista…) are probably the ultimate pussy paradises in the whole planet. Even if online gaming is the worst way to bang girls in the country, it still brings TONS of ONS in those parts. I´m sure you´ll do fine.
Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
Nightlife = best way to get laid in brazil ???? yeah right. So much bullshit to deal with, girls in Brazil will act roudy and makeout with you like crazy but getting them to look like a huge slut in front of their friends going home with you = almost never going to happen unless she is not very attractive, probably less then what I could get from online.
Well… Yes! At least according to my own experience and the experience of all my friends, both native and foreign. I don´t know to what kind of nightlife you went, but in any city of the country you can get some serious action in clubs (except Rio) and bars. And single girls in their mid-20s usually go out in small sets (2 or 3 friends) and don´t give a fuck to what their friends will think. Of course, if you´re chasing young college girls, very attached to social circle and status, the experience will be totally different.
Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
Also, Nightlife in Rio de Janeiro was never that great to begin with as its a very healthy oriented city thats all about the daytime partys and meetups. (unless you want to go to a disgusting lapa party to pickup a solid 2) I'm sure now with tinder/instagram getting laid from nightlife has probably gotten even harder. Brazil is excellent at making it SEEM like you're about to get laid with lots of girls happy to talk and makeout and be nice, but after all the kissing and dancing and when push comes to shove and its time to leave their friends 95%+ chance they will not do it.
First of all, although I´m based in Rio, I meant night game in general in the whole country. That said, I totally agree that nightlife in Rio IN CLUBS sucks! Awful! Probably the worst city in the country to get ONS in clubs… But PRIVATE PARTIES are a different story. Have you ever went to any of them? There are tons every weekend in the city. Although expensive ($30 or $40 a ticket without booze included), ratio is usually very good (60/40 or 70/30), girls get very drunk, no social circle, no table game, lots of girls from other parts of the country visiting the city… It´s the “hidden gem” (not so hidden as basically every local knows) of Rio´s nightlife.
And also, it´s very easy to game in bars in Rio neighborhoods such as Botafogo, Gavea or Ipanema. From Wednesday to Sunday, bars are usually crowded (specially in summer), and the ones you can stand in the sidewalk are gold to approach girls standing next to you.
Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
Daygame is bad? Seriously Rio is THE DAYGAME city. A lot of times in Ipanema if you look good on the beach girls will a lot of times "open" you (of course with an excuse like can they borrow a lighter or take a hit off your joint or some BS). I'm usually shy to open girls and they will often seem like they are "inviting" me to open during the day at lots of random places like grocery store or whatever so even my shy ass sometimes gets numbers during the day.
My post was regarding all Brazil in general. But as I said, there are specific places to day game in Brazil, and one of them are beaches in summer, especially in Rio. But the “traditional” day game, such as approaching in malls, grocery stores, or randomly in the street, doesn´t exist and girls are usually afraid of talking to random guys. Don´t know if I made myself clear but when I suggested not wasting time or effort in day gaming, I was thinking precisely in this kind of “out-of-nowhere” approach.
Quote: (04-15-2019 05:15 PM)LatinoHeat Wrote:
All this talk also about being mega aggressive I think doesn't necessarily work for foreigners as it does for local Brazilians (esp white and asian foreigners) and can often backfire if you try "100% asshole" game that works really well on American chicks, at least thats been my experience. You don't need to be a roided out dickhead, just don't be a fucking beta-male pussy like 3/4th of the gringos, keep a strong frame but play into the more "chill but confident" guy they are looking for to get away from what they perceive are overly aggressive locals they are tired of dealing with. For example I had one of my Venezuelan girls tell me "I like you because you're not so scared like a European boy, but not so machista like the guys in Venezuela, you're 'the perfect amount of machista'" she likes to joke. Thats how you want to position yourself as a foreigner IN SA, a little bit mysterious, slightly machista/dick but not over the top, and very confident.Once you get them out proceed like you would in any other country (keep the conversation light, go to a bar as close to your house as possible, offer to go to your house to "listen to music" or whatever, done deal)
I think the “aggressive game” thing was misunderstood. Nothing to do with “asshole game”, lowering the girl value when talking to her or being sarcastic will probably lead to the girl telling you to fuck off. It´s not about being directly aggressive or rude to the girl, but about showing confidence, taking the lead and having balls. It´s basically strong eye contact, no hesitation to approach, “bad boy” body language, strong physical contact and quick escalation after a few minutes of interaction. I think you were straight into the point: The key is being confident.
Anyway, I´m happy to know you had I great time when in Rio, here is usually the love or hate kind of thing. I´m in the love side, always joke that here is the “best worst place” to live… violent, expensive, chaotic, but with nature, vibe and girls that are totally worth it…