Why are you asking out female colleagues of your work?
Are you planning to quit soon, well then it might be fine, but otherwise there is a nice little phrase 'don't shit where you eat'.
Besides, I think you came across as needy and instead of asking her when to meet up, you should IMMEDIATELY told her, 'let's go on Thursday' without asking 'ok?' or 'do you agree?'. You are the man, so you should lead. Moreover, I think you were trying a bit too hard, is it because you still don't believe in the abundance mentality, because when I read between the lines, that's what I feel, that you don't have that mentality yet. Anyways, keep trying but with other women AND especially outside of your job.
Are you planning to quit soon, well then it might be fine, but otherwise there is a nice little phrase 'don't shit where you eat'.
Besides, I think you came across as needy and instead of asking her when to meet up, you should IMMEDIATELY told her, 'let's go on Thursday' without asking 'ok?' or 'do you agree?'. You are the man, so you should lead. Moreover, I think you were trying a bit too hard, is it because you still don't believe in the abundance mentality, because when I read between the lines, that's what I feel, that you don't have that mentality yet. Anyways, keep trying but with other women AND especially outside of your job.