Quote: (03-13-2019 05:01 PM)jcrew247 Wrote:
Quote: (03-13-2019 12:39 AM)Aquarius Wrote:
However, being FOB will get you no play anywhere in the US. And even if you are "Americanized", being on the same cultural wavelength with girls in these more conservative cities is required. This means having an interest/understanding of college football, baseball, church, country music, etc. While you definitely should cold approach, having a strong enough social circle to be able to run game inside, even if you choose not to, is absolutely required.
Good advice. From what I assume, Austin is one of those midwest-south places that is liberal and may be good for asian men.
Do you think its okay to be so white-washed bordering on white-worshipping?
I don't know how much a guys should change just to date white women.
I guess those are the unspoken rules when it comes to building trust and comfort with white women.
But at the same time, whether its laziness or whatever, I feel like women who are liberal and more international travelled will also be open-minded to asian men. But those type of women are very few, unless its another 2nd generation white immigrant from Russia or Poland. I've also heard that some 2nd generation Irish girls like asian men! I know a russian girl from Brighton Beach that dates an asian guy.
I've heard not-so-great things about Austin. But I haven't been, so can't confirm.
If you insist on sticking to your Asian bubble playing Starcraft and drinking bubble tea all day long, well as long as your happy I can't say anything about it. Just don't complain to me when white girls only ignore you.
And regarding "white culture", nobody is telling you to disregard your Asian side, bu to keep an open mind. When fall football season rolls around, why not learn the rules of the sport and just tune in to one game? Maybe you'll end up really liking it! Why not go to a church packed with young professional white girls, and tell them that you wanna learn more about Christianity/the church itself? You ask them nicely and show interest, they'll definitely befriend you, giving you a social circle! Why not go on youtube or spotify and search for country songs and perhaps it might turn out to be one of your favorite music genres?
Does being an avid fan of say, the Texas Longhorns, interfere with your Asian culture and values?
I am actually from East Asia who moved to the US for college education and English is not even my first language; I don't speak a lick of English the moment I step into my parents' house or with relatives. We also never, ever cook any Western food at home. In fact, our family usually hires tour guides from our own country and have the guide drive us to authentic restaurants cooking our nationality's cuisine whenever we travel for leisure outside of Asia. If I can keep an open mind, like aspects of white culture, and relate to white American girls with it, then you can too.
Its not just white American girls. This applies to all girls. You need to demonstrate high value and exhibit that you can build comfort/trust with any type of girls your going after. This means you need to be able to connect with them on a cultural level, both in terms of nationality and subculture.
Keep in mind the most successful white guys in Asia are the ones who are socially calibrated, understand Asian culture, and speak the local language. Why can't we Asians do the same when going interracial?
Obviously, if I want an artsy hipster girl, I would recalibrate my focus to hanging out at the trendiest coffee shops, going to art galleries, MLS games if in the US, obscure indie music concerts, etc. Likewise, if I really wanted a French girl, I'll move to France or Quebec, learn French, open my mind to trying whatever young French people like, and understanding as thoroughly as I can the French mentality.
Even in Poland, you need to be able to relate to Polish girls. People are complaining why the average Pawel or Piotr in Poland can get hotter girls than many foreign digital nomads raking in 6 figures. Its because of the connection and comfort. Not having anything in common with the girls you want to date, or bang more than once, is really an uphill battle, nearly impossible barring certain circumstances.
Kpop is nowhere near as mainstream as hiphop (or the WGF for white guys) for us to use it to game white girls. Even then, black guys have complained the limitations they face even "armed" with globally popular hiphop, and have you seen the quality of Asian girls that anime soyboy English teacher white guys winging it on WGF generally pull?