Quote: (03-12-2019 05:16 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:
Most guys here will give you the same advice: show, don't tell.
With women, you'll get a much better result with this kind of shit if you can communicate it non-verbally. If you've got a foot fetish? Reward and compliment her when she shows off her feet or paints her toes. She'll be more likely to do it again, and then instead of being seen as the creep with the foot fetish, you're seen as the guy who made her feel good.
Save the serious fetish talk for your serious girlfriend, but even then you'll still be better off communicating it non-verbally.
The thing is I mostly want to involve my fetish(es) as well, so that's why I just mention it as early as possible. I look somewhat trustworthy, that's why I think nobody thought of me as a creep and I always put myself into the role of this 'weird guy'. Yes, I embrace this role and it worked for me so far.
Quote: (03-12-2019 06:52 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:
As IB says, show don't tell.
Go slow, introduce slowly and gauge her reaction.
The thing is if you do it slow, it might backfire. I used to do it first like that, but nowadays I don't as it is not worth it.