I thought back to this thread after doing a few approaches in the past couple of weeks. Given the topic and how it is occasionally discussed when traveling, I thought we would get some discussion going. Well here is an epiphany I have had lately when it comes to this sort of thing, not going to post on it again unless a discussion gets going. I know it is controversial but has to be said...
Women who dislike men of their own background and heritage are inherently damaged and tend to be hungry social ladder climbers with serious issues around insecurity and validation. This goes for men as well.
Now it is different than saying women who date interracially are damaged, attraction is what attraction is. Sometimes a quality guy or quality girl comes into your life to the point where you click and none of the race and culture stuff matters. I have gone interracial many times with women who just happened to click well with me, treated me well, and were fun to be around.
I am talking more about people who absolutely refuse to hook up with and date their own race; the kinds who have genuine hatred towards opposite sex members of their own race. In my view, there are serious problems going on there around image and insecurity that these sorts of people are best avoided. I would never go for a white girl that genuinely hates white guys and white guys going for ethnic girls who absolutely despise men of their own race are in for a rude awakening as well. It is usually a hunger for power, status, and a desperate need for social validation that makes women dislike men of their own background if they are not the most popular group to be with.
Some cultures I find are naturally image hungry and so in a diverse society, the women from those cultures and places of origin will go for whatever the media or society promote as attractive. Mediterranean, South American, and a lot of Middle Eastern women tend to fit this mold as in these cultures there is an added importance on image and the way you are socially perceived as opposed to values such as good character and doing the right thing. In most cases, there is a push in these cultures to avoid associating with people any darker than you and to go above and beyond to get whiter.
Women who dislike men of their own background and heritage are inherently damaged and tend to be hungry social ladder climbers with serious issues around insecurity and validation. This goes for men as well.
Now it is different than saying women who date interracially are damaged, attraction is what attraction is. Sometimes a quality guy or quality girl comes into your life to the point where you click and none of the race and culture stuff matters. I have gone interracial many times with women who just happened to click well with me, treated me well, and were fun to be around.
I am talking more about people who absolutely refuse to hook up with and date their own race; the kinds who have genuine hatred towards opposite sex members of their own race. In my view, there are serious problems going on there around image and insecurity that these sorts of people are best avoided. I would never go for a white girl that genuinely hates white guys and white guys going for ethnic girls who absolutely despise men of their own race are in for a rude awakening as well. It is usually a hunger for power, status, and a desperate need for social validation that makes women dislike men of their own background if they are not the most popular group to be with.
Some cultures I find are naturally image hungry and so in a diverse society, the women from those cultures and places of origin will go for whatever the media or society promote as attractive. Mediterranean, South American, and a lot of Middle Eastern women tend to fit this mold as in these cultures there is an added importance on image and the way you are socially perceived as opposed to values such as good character and doing the right thing. In most cases, there is a push in these cultures to avoid associating with people any darker than you and to go above and beyond to get whiter.