After an hour in the same location? I would say bounce. Have your logistics down so there are another couple options of locations within a couple minutes walking or by Uber. Use the transition time to use those Kino skills by being a gentleman for the moment (help with coat, taking her hand getting into or out of the Uber or stepping off a curb). When you get to the new location, you can reboot the conversation by using the old location, stay positive though. Something like "I really liked that place, it reminds me of .....blah blah....some deeper shit."
Sitting across from each other at the very start is fine as you have to get through the first bit of interview style conversation. Sitting side by side is key, especially at a second place if you feel like the first hour went well (aka you're interested). If not you can just end it, but if the potential is high you can pretty much escalate into an insta second date right there and hit up a new spot where you can sit next to each other.
Doing that you can share secrets, make up stories about people around you or whatever, and escalate Kino further. It takes the pressure off of being face to face all the time. If there is a shot silence you can both look around the room naturally, not look down at the table or blankly over each others shoulder. Then when you see something funny or worth talking about you can use the opportunity to make her turn and consciously look at you, share a funny or interesting moment and build rapport.
Quote: (01-20-2019 04:15 PM)Hypno Wrote:
Do this gradually over a course of an hour. .I find it easier to do this sitting in the same side of a booth
When you leave, put your hand on her back instead of holding her hand. Slide it up under her hair to her neck and then run your fingers through her hair.
Sitting across from each other at the very start is fine as you have to get through the first bit of interview style conversation. Sitting side by side is key, especially at a second place if you feel like the first hour went well (aka you're interested). If not you can just end it, but if the potential is high you can pretty much escalate into an insta second date right there and hit up a new spot where you can sit next to each other.
Doing that you can share secrets, make up stories about people around you or whatever, and escalate Kino further. It takes the pressure off of being face to face all the time. If there is a shot silence you can both look around the room naturally, not look down at the table or blankly over each others shoulder. Then when you see something funny or worth talking about you can use the opportunity to make her turn and consciously look at you, share a funny or interesting moment and build rapport.
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