I don't do dating apps..so this is about the meat space
There is a niche for an older dudes it's called masculinity.
The best gambit is to tell them to guess if they ask your age..It will usually be low ..just tell them they are a good guesser..be fun.
You have to be fun and have a good vibe I think the breakdown comes for dudes who are looking for a GF..Young chicks have disgust for this in the West..
"He is like 40 and wants to be my boyfriend like we only fucked once and he calls me all the time"
I've got kids already so I don't give a fuck about it.I think of myself as an adventure..
I do meet certain markers that they can equate me to like the Rock or Vin Diesal or Stratham at a stretch.Also Euro porn has shaven head dudes that look like me.This is shit I've been told over the last few years.I'm in no way as big as those dudes
The problem with my age or getting over my age is not the chicks as much as its mine.
The 18 -23 can't talk anymore its the ones that can that are into me..
Things said to me
""Do you think its creepy for me to be 20 and talking to you?"
"We like older guys"
I get hit up for sugar daddy by 25 to 28
"You travel alot "
I asked a hot batmaid who hit me up why me.When I was in a real rich beach town here surrounded by rich dudes wearing $400 shorts ..I drank coffee in this joint every morning to have dudes complain how I go out every night and what a loose cannon I was .I loved it cause I knew chicks love that shit.While these dudes thought they were cockblocking me.
She said "You are fun ,you go out everynight ,you still party and travel."
I was the poorest guy there
A 31 year old who I was having an affair with said
"But you are a cool dad I cant believe you are in your 40s with kids.."
Its a vibe and an energy that you sub communicate its not James Bond shit.
I think this is where taller dudes actually fall down compared to shorter dudes..The taller dude does not age as well and usually looks way older and has a older vibe
Keys are to go out ,be fun do game learn sub comms..But guys without kids will find it harder as they are sub consciously looking to have kids looking for GF energy and looking for affection.
It's a night game thing to you have to be seen as outlaw ,rocker or bad boy I guess.There must be an edge to you.
The best 2 guys I know are 49 who bang 23 year olds but these guys don't look their age their dress style is timeless rockn roll with modern brands ..think James Marshall or Springsteen..I don't know any dude in suits doing this shit.
I much prefer 25 to 33 for their energy there is a fragility to 18-23 now that I don't find appealling..But there are the ovulating backpackers not on the pill up for older dudes that can spot them
I say all that shit but I still spike adrenaline when 18 ,19, 20 comes my way..And every one of these chicks have a steady BF.
And I'm talking white chicks Oz ,US ,Western EU..not Asia or SA..
Be masculine and don't jump through hoops..
Also its a bit like powerlifting your central nervous system has to get use to the heavy weights so you can lift and recover to lift heavy next time.Pick up is kind of the same your central nervous system has to get use to the beauty and the energy of young chicks before you can believe it and pull the trigger .It nott a thing that just happens you have to be around it by going out.
There is a niche for an older dudes it's called masculinity.
The best gambit is to tell them to guess if they ask your age..It will usually be low ..just tell them they are a good guesser..be fun.
You have to be fun and have a good vibe I think the breakdown comes for dudes who are looking for a GF..Young chicks have disgust for this in the West..
"He is like 40 and wants to be my boyfriend like we only fucked once and he calls me all the time"
I've got kids already so I don't give a fuck about it.I think of myself as an adventure..
I do meet certain markers that they can equate me to like the Rock or Vin Diesal or Stratham at a stretch.Also Euro porn has shaven head dudes that look like me.This is shit I've been told over the last few years.I'm in no way as big as those dudes
The problem with my age or getting over my age is not the chicks as much as its mine.
The 18 -23 can't talk anymore its the ones that can that are into me..
Things said to me
""Do you think its creepy for me to be 20 and talking to you?"
"We like older guys"
I get hit up for sugar daddy by 25 to 28
"You travel alot "
I asked a hot batmaid who hit me up why me.When I was in a real rich beach town here surrounded by rich dudes wearing $400 shorts ..I drank coffee in this joint every morning to have dudes complain how I go out every night and what a loose cannon I was .I loved it cause I knew chicks love that shit.While these dudes thought they were cockblocking me.
She said "You are fun ,you go out everynight ,you still party and travel."
I was the poorest guy there
A 31 year old who I was having an affair with said
"But you are a cool dad I cant believe you are in your 40s with kids.."
Its a vibe and an energy that you sub communicate its not James Bond shit.
I think this is where taller dudes actually fall down compared to shorter dudes..The taller dude does not age as well and usually looks way older and has a older vibe
Keys are to go out ,be fun do game learn sub comms..But guys without kids will find it harder as they are sub consciously looking to have kids looking for GF energy and looking for affection.
It's a night game thing to you have to be seen as outlaw ,rocker or bad boy I guess.There must be an edge to you.
The best 2 guys I know are 49 who bang 23 year olds but these guys don't look their age their dress style is timeless rockn roll with modern brands ..think James Marshall or Springsteen..I don't know any dude in suits doing this shit.
I much prefer 25 to 33 for their energy there is a fragility to 18-23 now that I don't find appealling..But there are the ovulating backpackers not on the pill up for older dudes that can spot them
I say all that shit but I still spike adrenaline when 18 ,19, 20 comes my way..And every one of these chicks have a steady BF.
And I'm talking white chicks Oz ,US ,Western EU..not Asia or SA..
Be masculine and don't jump through hoops..
Also its a bit like powerlifting your central nervous system has to get use to the heavy weights so you can lift and recover to lift heavy next time.Pick up is kind of the same your central nervous system has to get use to the beauty and the energy of young chicks before you can believe it and pull the trigger .It nott a thing that just happens you have to be around it by going out.