Quote: (12-15-2018 09:58 AM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:
Cold approach pickup is hard. Very hard. And only few guys be able to do it. It is entirely safe to assume that 95% of guys just cannot do it. And I am just talking about approaching, which is really just the beginning of the whole process. Not even talking about going on dates or having sex.
Mastery is even harder to obtain. Safe to assume 99.98% does not even get close. And I am trying to be positive here.
But that does not mean these guys just go away. No, they go on forums and begin talking about how looks matter most instead. Or they go make arguments that Game is just dishonest manipulation. Or they go curse at guys and call them "little robots" or something.
And some coaches are smart enough to monetize on this. Why try to teach pickup and Game if you can make more money by selling some bullshit? Cannot blame these coaches for desiring to make some cash. Everyone wants cash.
The greatest businessman in the world manages to sell you air. Literal fucking air. The second best businessman in world sells you water. Literal fucking water.
RSD for example never really has been a "pickup company". They sell a fantasy. Some of it might be rooted in reality, but that is not what is important. It is a whole lot more profitable to keep guys in the dark and show them a little light. Just enough so they keep emptying their wallets time after time again.
Plenty guys are victim to tactics like this.
Then there are the angry guys. Guys who basically have given up. Problem is that awareness of Game is poison. Knowing that you might be able to do something. That you actually can make your dreams come true. Having this knowledge and then doing nothing is destructive like nothing else. Ignorance is truly bliss.
I fully expect male suicide rates to go up in near future (if not already happening). A large part of these guys will be Game aware guys. Guys who know how to get chicks, but are unable to actually do it.
Another point I like to make is that people these days have trouble concentrating. Reading an entire book is much harder then just watching a few 10 minute videos on Youtube. And in order to learn Game one really needs to read books. Books are still the best medium to transfer knowledge from one person to another. And some of these books need to be studied like a math book. Cannot just read it and put it away. Notes need to be made. Sections need to be highlighted. Things need to be memorized. You get the idea.
Also want to note that the community will degenerate to the lowest common denominator when the size increases. This is true for ANY community that increases in size.
A truly excellent post. This forum and the whole community needs more people like you. You summarized the proper outlook.