Quote: (12-02-2018 04:04 AM)lunchmoney Wrote:
I ended up going out tonight with a girl I met a few weeks ago at a gas station after exchanging a few texts yesterday. I remembered she was cute from the day game approach, but tonight she looked amazing. We met up for drinks at a hotel bar, and talked over a few glasses of wine. After the first glass got in her, she became much more comfortable, and these red flags were shared:
1. She has an icy relationship with her mother.
2. She has no relationship with her real father. Her mom and dad divorced when she was 14, and her mom re-married at 16. She referred to her step-dad as his first name, not as father, step-father, anything of respect.
3. She was married early (22) and it ended in divorce at 25. She said he cheated on her with a co-worker (He was a doctor in a hospital who supposedly was smashing a nurse assistant)
4. She moved back in with her mom and step-dad after the divorce, which became official in March. So as of right now she is still living at home
From a LTR perspective, I was surprised a woman who from the outside reflected a solid 8 (she works out 4-5 times a week, fit and great curves) had so much baggage at such a young age.
How would you rank the above red flags from biggest issue to smallest?
These are the worst if you're looking for that answer.
I would bang, but not LTR.
Tread carefully long term but nothing to worry about at the moment as long as you are just having fun and not trying to commit.