I ended up going out tonight with a girl I met a few weeks ago at a gas station after exchanging a few texts yesterday. I remembered she was cute from the day game approach, but tonight she looked amazing. We met up for drinks at a hotel bar, and talked over a few glasses of wine. After the first glass got in her, she became much more comfortable, and these red flags were shared:
1. She has an icy relationship with her mother.
2. She has no relationship with her real father. Her mom and dad divorced when she was 14, and her mom re-married at 16. She referred to her step-dad as his first name, not as father, step-father, anything of respect.
3. She was married early (22) and it ended in divorce at 25. She said he cheated on her with a co-worker (He was a doctor in a hospital who supposedly was smashing a nurse assistant)
4. She moved back in with her mom and step-dad after the divorce, which became official in March. So as of right now she is still living at home
From a LTR perspective, I was surprised a woman who from the outside reflected a solid 8 (she works out 4-5 times a week, fit and great curves) had so much baggage at such a young age.
How would you rank the above red flags from biggest issue to smallest?
1. She has an icy relationship with her mother.
2. She has no relationship with her real father. Her mom and dad divorced when she was 14, and her mom re-married at 16. She referred to her step-dad as his first name, not as father, step-father, anything of respect.
3. She was married early (22) and it ended in divorce at 25. She said he cheated on her with a co-worker (He was a doctor in a hospital who supposedly was smashing a nurse assistant)
4. She moved back in with her mom and step-dad after the divorce, which became official in March. So as of right now she is still living at home
From a LTR perspective, I was surprised a woman who from the outside reflected a solid 8 (she works out 4-5 times a week, fit and great curves) had so much baggage at such a young age.
How would you rank the above red flags from biggest issue to smallest?