Quote: (09-10-2013 08:06 PM)Altair Wrote:
who here learned game and became a player without the help of a mentor?
I'm about 6 months deep and have met a few guys with 2, 3, or even 4 years worth of experience yet they still aren't intermediate. I attribute one guy's slow progress to the fact that he doesn't know what to work on. He spam approaches and does no reflection at all on his approaches.
If you came up without a mentor, how did you ensure you were going on the correct direction and working on the right things?
If I could go back in time when I first started learning game, I'd say to myself. The following...
1. Focus on either getting a high paying career and/or online marketing. Your money is more important than getting laid. Spend more time hustling with your business than pick up. But, still be consistent with pick up.
2. Move out of momma's house ASAP (you will save yourself a lot of grief and barriers).
That's my tip to you but to answer your question, field reports and honestly assess yourself. Plus, ONLY take advice from real players. Most coaches suck.