I can finally consider myself a borderline expert with Lebanese women. Had a good time there. Can sum up my most worthy insight with this - stick to the girls with the smallest friendship groups, if any friendship groups at all. The girls contracted to the big groups all have a really weird pack mentality where they tear apart any man or woman who expresses any 'rough around the edges' viewpoint. They condemn their own, so harshly, for making jokes that would be fine anywhere in the West; and these are groups who do drink, and smoke weed, so i don't understand why they're so limited in this regard. It's also very easy for word to spread around that someone new (you, me) is in town - these friendship groups are massive, and extent across the whole country, and they're constantly in a social media echo chamber with eachother.
Further, they're smart in terms of...the paper they can show that says 'psychologist', 'nutritionist', etc, but there's a real lack of social intelligence, and a real lack of individual characters. Loads of insecure men who white-knight on social media in the most awful, overt ways 'RAPE IS NEVER OK GUYS, COME ON, SHE WAS ONLY WEARING A SKIRT, YOU THINK ITS OK IF YOUR LITTLE SISTER GETS RAPED?' etc, to massive applause from the girl groups on their peripheral. Of course rape isn't good, but the way in which they state the bleeding obvious - to actual applause instead of 'fuck sake - look at this peacocking virtue-signaller' - is annoying - and ignorant. I can't get on with it.
This is a place where someone with a big, worldly mind, will have to bite their tongue daily, unless they come across one of the few 'indie' girls who're overtly Trump, slightly more masculine outfits and hair than the other girls, etc. These girls too, lack something. But i suppose women everywhere do.
If i want a wife, i'll definitely consider here. I've totally reconsidered though the idea of bonding with a group of guys or girls here. I think both ways, groups here end up in the extremes. Extremely fake, or, extremely unable to get along with the fake.
Love the place in more ways than I dislike it.
Further, they're smart in terms of...the paper they can show that says 'psychologist', 'nutritionist', etc, but there's a real lack of social intelligence, and a real lack of individual characters. Loads of insecure men who white-knight on social media in the most awful, overt ways 'RAPE IS NEVER OK GUYS, COME ON, SHE WAS ONLY WEARING A SKIRT, YOU THINK ITS OK IF YOUR LITTLE SISTER GETS RAPED?' etc, to massive applause from the girl groups on their peripheral. Of course rape isn't good, but the way in which they state the bleeding obvious - to actual applause instead of 'fuck sake - look at this peacocking virtue-signaller' - is annoying - and ignorant. I can't get on with it.
This is a place where someone with a big, worldly mind, will have to bite their tongue daily, unless they come across one of the few 'indie' girls who're overtly Trump, slightly more masculine outfits and hair than the other girls, etc. These girls too, lack something. But i suppose women everywhere do.
If i want a wife, i'll definitely consider here. I've totally reconsidered though the idea of bonding with a group of guys or girls here. I think both ways, groups here end up in the extremes. Extremely fake, or, extremely unable to get along with the fake.
Love the place in more ways than I dislike it.