Guys,
I am not a good looking by any mean. Two years ago I went back to gym and took care of my skin and clothing .
1- I am 5'6"
2- Average face
3- Fit : I look like I go to gym but I am not muscular
4- For the style, I have outstanding style. I got compliments from women all the time and guys too.
Here my struggle, I had girls turn their heads to check me out multiple times when I dress well.Sometimes those girls/ women were with their boyfriends/ husbands who are way better looking than me an even taller.
Not just this , a coworker has big crush on me . She blushes when I talk to her , breathes fast, plays with her earlobe and touches me very often. When I saw her boyfriend, he is not handsome but he is better looking than me .
All this happens when I dress well.
Since I have low self-confidence when it comes to women due to past experiences , I still can't believe they are checking me out.
Away from assuming attraction mindset which I try to maintain .
Do you think making those stylish change increased my SMV?
I am not a good looking by any mean. Two years ago I went back to gym and took care of my skin and clothing .
1- I am 5'6"
2- Average face
3- Fit : I look like I go to gym but I am not muscular
4- For the style, I have outstanding style. I got compliments from women all the time and guys too.
Here my struggle, I had girls turn their heads to check me out multiple times when I dress well.Sometimes those girls/ women were with their boyfriends/ husbands who are way better looking than me an even taller.
Not just this , a coworker has big crush on me . She blushes when I talk to her , breathes fast, plays with her earlobe and touches me very often. When I saw her boyfriend, he is not handsome but he is better looking than me .
All this happens when I dress well.
Since I have low self-confidence when it comes to women due to past experiences , I still can't believe they are checking me out.
Away from assuming attraction mindset which I try to maintain .
Do you think making those stylish change increased my SMV?