I'm an ugly older man. Sometimes I'm in my groove and pull well above my looks. And above my income. In fact I've come to expect it and only shoot way out of my league. Oh, and I'm short and balding.
I was doing that before I heard of game. I started to do it more consistently after I'd been with a few dozen women and my social skills and knowledge of them went up. Along with my confidence, born from experience.
I think of game as everything that helps to build attraction, so that would include looks and money, but if you have the more popular limited definition that game includes only your speech and mannerisms, I'd have to say that even just that can make a big difference.
The thing is though that if all you have is speech and manerisms, you'll have to target more carefully, as your appeal won't be as broad. However without even that psychological skill, you may as well just target hookers.
Everything counts. There are many things women find attractive. A big dick can go a long way. A pretty face can go a long way. Money can go a long way. Making girls laugh can go a long way. You can sometimes rely on just one single good trick. But our game is stronger the more attraction triggers we can simultaneously push - including the provider trigger buttons.
Of course it's easier for uglier guys to date young hotties if in SE Asia, where I live, however the females here are still humans, and to rev their motors requires the same procedures as getting females anywhere hot and bothered. To get genuine strong emotion from a young hottie is a definite skill. A skill you get better at with experience.
I think what is taught of as game is really just peoples experience codified. A lot of it is not actually helpful, in that it won't be transferrable from one person to the other, as we have different personalities, however the overarching architecture of females is a cross-cultural constant we can rely on. And game includes discussing that architecture.
I was doing that before I heard of game. I started to do it more consistently after I'd been with a few dozen women and my social skills and knowledge of them went up. Along with my confidence, born from experience.
I think of game as everything that helps to build attraction, so that would include looks and money, but if you have the more popular limited definition that game includes only your speech and mannerisms, I'd have to say that even just that can make a big difference.
The thing is though that if all you have is speech and manerisms, you'll have to target more carefully, as your appeal won't be as broad. However without even that psychological skill, you may as well just target hookers.
Everything counts. There are many things women find attractive. A big dick can go a long way. A pretty face can go a long way. Money can go a long way. Making girls laugh can go a long way. You can sometimes rely on just one single good trick. But our game is stronger the more attraction triggers we can simultaneously push - including the provider trigger buttons.
Of course it's easier for uglier guys to date young hotties if in SE Asia, where I live, however the females here are still humans, and to rev their motors requires the same procedures as getting females anywhere hot and bothered. To get genuine strong emotion from a young hottie is a definite skill. A skill you get better at with experience.
I think what is taught of as game is really just peoples experience codified. A lot of it is not actually helpful, in that it won't be transferrable from one person to the other, as we have different personalities, however the overarching architecture of females is a cross-cultural constant we can rely on. And game includes discussing that architecture.