I've only been here for two months, but I'm definitely noticing some elements of separation and segregation here between the ethnic groups. If you're a black guy who isn't really into black women (like me), social circles and maybe day game seem to be the best way to go. Night game here isn't like in New York where you have people that come from everywhere and are more willing to mingle with others. Here in Philadelphia, there are a lot of people from the city and outlying suburbs who have been around since growing up and have no intentions of going anywhere. The people are more insular and tend to stick among themselves as a result. I think there are a few pockets that are exceptions to this (universities and maybe Fishtown), but what I've described above is the overall sense I'm getting.
Interestingly enough, I've been able to pull a few dates from online apps with a few black girls but they all tried to play the same game of holding themselves out as "good girls". One of them deserves a story that I should probably put in the Player's Lounge at some point.
Interestingly enough, I've been able to pull a few dates from online apps with a few black girls but they all tried to play the same game of holding themselves out as "good girls". One of them deserves a story that I should probably put in the Player's Lounge at some point.