Quote: (09-20-2018 10:05 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:
That's why you can have a beautiful girl "in love" with a scumbag / broke / loser that treats her like shit...One woman may respond to the "excitement" of tatted up ganje smoking musician that's fucking multiple girls, while another's attraction sequence is more receptive to the dominant alpha provider type.
Hypergamy exists, but its the emotional source component highly variable nature makes it hard to accurately predict
I knew a woman who was really messed up, had a schizophrenic brother and a mother who was, uh, her own set of problems. You could tell she was riddled with anxiety and every other problem just from watching her walk around, like the 'before' picture of a rescue dog.
In any case, she was dating a line cook who got fired at Applebee's and kept bumming weed money off of her. This dude couldn't adequately prepare onion rings to the standard required to justify paying him $10/hr.
However, she was convinced that he was going to become a famous chef.
Convinced.
She would even try to take care of his kids from his last marriage that he didn't give two shits about.
In her mind, she was getting banged by the next Anthony Bourdain, even when he got angry at her and threw her purse into the woods so she couldn't go to work, and all of her coworkers ended up forming a search party to come to her house and help her find it. Nothing could convince her this guy was a brain-dead scrub or that she was only broke because she was taking care of him.
Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!