Ok this one has me really baffled.....
So I hung out tonight with this girl that has known me for a while - friend of a friend. She's a solid 8. There's always been this tension between us, but its never really worked out. She was dating some douche for a while and finally broke up with him and has been single for almost a year.
This girl knows that I currently have a girlfriend, but has no issue hanging out with me.
We meet at a local bar. Playful banter the entire time, IOIs all over the place (playing with her hair, touching her neck). She's touching my leg, my arm, my back, and I'm reciprocating. I work in a line about having to stay at her place because its closer (truth) than my place.
We launch into a conversation about how it'll work, playfully. Like saying panties and bra stay on, we'll make a wall of pillows, etc etc. I figure at this point, I just have to get to her place and I'm in.
We cash out (split the tab) and walk out with her holding onto my arm. We get out into the parking lot and I say, "So, I'll follow you (to your place)?" She immediately says, "You need to go home". Now mind you, I've had a few drinks, and her a few glasses of wine, but I'm definitely not drunk. I throw out one last desperation play and say "whats your address?" She just says in reply "night jerky".
I end up going home, thinking that I fucked this one up somehow. I was getting a TON of signals, but maybe the fact that she knows I have a GF is really putting her off on this one. Either that or she's just really flirty and has no interest in going home with me.
Really confused on this one.
So I hung out tonight with this girl that has known me for a while - friend of a friend. She's a solid 8. There's always been this tension between us, but its never really worked out. She was dating some douche for a while and finally broke up with him and has been single for almost a year.
This girl knows that I currently have a girlfriend, but has no issue hanging out with me.
We meet at a local bar. Playful banter the entire time, IOIs all over the place (playing with her hair, touching her neck). She's touching my leg, my arm, my back, and I'm reciprocating. I work in a line about having to stay at her place because its closer (truth) than my place.
We launch into a conversation about how it'll work, playfully. Like saying panties and bra stay on, we'll make a wall of pillows, etc etc. I figure at this point, I just have to get to her place and I'm in.
We cash out (split the tab) and walk out with her holding onto my arm. We get out into the parking lot and I say, "So, I'll follow you (to your place)?" She immediately says, "You need to go home". Now mind you, I've had a few drinks, and her a few glasses of wine, but I'm definitely not drunk. I throw out one last desperation play and say "whats your address?" She just says in reply "night jerky".
I end up going home, thinking that I fucked this one up somehow. I was getting a TON of signals, but maybe the fact that she knows I have a GF is really putting her off on this one. Either that or she's just really flirty and has no interest in going home with me.
Really confused on this one.