Kissing doesn't make a woman interested in you ,it's more of a metric for her attraction. That's why most guys tounge down girls at the clubs, to see if it's "on".
While at the bar you can still relate to the girl in a sexualized way to let her know "okay, this guy fucks" without kissing and breaking all the sexual tension and raising the anti slut defense.
You can make out with a chick at a bar all night, get her phone number and the next morning she will wake up and go OMG I was such a slut last night and ignore your ass cus she's a "classy lady".
Back to your scenario, a chick that doesn't want to get fucked isn't going to walk to a guys apartment (even if she doesn't enter). She wanted to fuck you, and it wasn't because of the kissing. It was everything else. The laughter, the glances, and light touches, getting close on the dance floor, the sexual innuendo.
drop the kissing, invite her to your place with a good excuse "I make the best martini ever, I'll show you, come." If she presses what you're going to do there, say "I'm going to make you the drink, maybe kiss you a little, then I got to kick you out I have church tomorrow, come it'll be fun"
When you get to your door, just walk up! Don't ask if she wants to come in either lol.
Once you're upstairs don't jump on the chick right away BUT you're going to want to kiss them within 5--7 minutes just to show them you aren't scared and want to fuck. But a quick light kiss and back off first.
I like to kiss real quick, tease "is that the best you got? Let's try again" kiss a little more intensely but break it off first again. Then move away from the chick, give her space. Chat for another couple minutes, kiss again, pull back. Chat more. Then tour of the bedroom, get her in the bed and tease the fuck out of her til she's begging for it. Good luck.
While at the bar you can still relate to the girl in a sexualized way to let her know "okay, this guy fucks" without kissing and breaking all the sexual tension and raising the anti slut defense.
You can make out with a chick at a bar all night, get her phone number and the next morning she will wake up and go OMG I was such a slut last night and ignore your ass cus she's a "classy lady".
Back to your scenario, a chick that doesn't want to get fucked isn't going to walk to a guys apartment (even if she doesn't enter). She wanted to fuck you, and it wasn't because of the kissing. It was everything else. The laughter, the glances, and light touches, getting close on the dance floor, the sexual innuendo.
drop the kissing, invite her to your place with a good excuse "I make the best martini ever, I'll show you, come." If she presses what you're going to do there, say "I'm going to make you the drink, maybe kiss you a little, then I got to kick you out I have church tomorrow, come it'll be fun"
When you get to your door, just walk up! Don't ask if she wants to come in either lol.
Once you're upstairs don't jump on the chick right away BUT you're going to want to kiss them within 5--7 minutes just to show them you aren't scared and want to fuck. But a quick light kiss and back off first.
I like to kiss real quick, tease "is that the best you got? Let's try again" kiss a little more intensely but break it off first again. Then move away from the chick, give her space. Chat for another couple minutes, kiss again, pull back. Chat more. Then tour of the bedroom, get her in the bed and tease the fuck out of her til she's begging for it. Good luck.