Last week I nearly banged a girl on a pebble beach who I met in a bar after i'd bee on a 14 hour drinking session!
I drank so much that I seemed to drink myself sober, so I didn't come across as drunk lol.
She was only 19. Pretty but not as thin as i'd like. 5.5-6/10
Had lots of attraction but I was out in a different town making the logistics a nightmare as she lived out of town aswell so my only shot was a bang on the beach, but it's not all sand beaches like in the US here! haha. Pebbles cockblocked me a bit and then her friends found us fondling on the beach and dragged her away as they were all getting a train back too a different town (opposite direction to my town)
Last night I went too a different town again and ended up again getting super close to the lay after inviting some girls back to my friends place, but I got a bit cock blocked by her friend who wanted to go home and get a cab![[Image: sad.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/sad.gif)
Sucked because this would have been a good one!
24 and looked a bit like Kylie Jenner! 7.5/10
I followed her into the bathroom after we began flirting heavily and used the isolation to get our 1st makeout and then she closed the door and took a piss whilst I watched lol. Tiny bathroom and people outside so couldn't do much.
Then we made out and I pulled her into my friends lounge and I was rubbing her pussy and stuff but just as it was getting good her friend kept coming in and was like ''I've called a cab for us''.
I tried to convince her to stay. No dice. Tried to get her to invite me with her but she lived with her parents and it wasn't gonna happen.
I think maybe i should have just escalated SUPER fast and tried to bang her in the lounge as fast as possible lol.
If only my friend was interested in her friend, i'm confident i'd have been able to get the lay.
I'm happy with the outcome although it was another set that I didn't open so it always feels like less of an achievement.
It's clear that my game is better than most of my friends. If i'm able to get past the open (or if my friend opens well and then I join in) I appear to be able to do well.
My friend opened the set whilst I was at the bar and I saw he'd been in set for a few mins so it must be going OK.
I walked over and said ''Are you guys being nice to my friend?'' They were like ''we're always nice'' and I said ''Yeah, I can tell....except you, maybe!'' (pointing at the hottest one). All giggled and within a few mins i'm flirting with the 2 hottest ones and my friend is kind of stalling with the 2 less attractive ones.
Made a slight fuck up as I basically hit on both of the hot ones (a blonde and the kylie jenner dark haired one) so I think I made it a bit harder for myself with Kylie Jenner as I looked like a player (she called me one actually) and was like ''I saw you hitting on my friend. You just want to get laid and you don't care who with as now you're hitting on me!'' but I held frame and made it playful and I said ''Shhhhh.....(whilst cuddling her and putting my finger on her lips)...you're confused and you're aroused. You don't know what you're saying'' and she cracked up laughing. She tried to protest again and I said ''This is all just a dream anyway. It doesn't matter'' and she laughed again and I gave her a little kiss on the lips on the emotional spike.
Qualified her a bit with the usual bollox about me liking her personality (I always say this although it was actually true in this case. She was amusing) and then invited her back which is when the aforementioned fondling took place. She even stuck a finger in my butt!! That was a new one for me!! Really wish I was clever enough to try to move her into a bedroom with a lock on the door! I'm an idiot.
Other points of note were some nasty rejections and some very stifled interactions before I felt 'loose'.
I suffer from bad 'premature EJECTualtion' where I exit a set straight away if I she isn't showing tonnes of interest which is a mistake. Some sort of ego protection mechanism.
Happened with my first set where I made a comment about sobering up as i'd been waiting for my drink for so long too a 2-set who were also at the bar. They laughed.
I asked one what she was drinking. She told me and I said ''You can tell a lot about a girl by her drink''.
She said ''Oh yeah? What do I do then??''
At this point I just felt zero 'game' in my bones and guessed her job. She said ''nope. I'm a hairdresser''.
Now, this is where for some reason my mind just went blank.
I guess I was trying to think of something ''good' to say. Couldn't. Then I thought about asking a regular question about her being a hairdresser but decided this would bore her and then found myself saying nothing at all and then they both just turned away and talked among themselves lol. I just needed to fukking talk!!! Anything would have been better than nothing! grrr....My bad
Also a few instant rejections more or less on the dancefloor but that's almost become a guarantee so no big deal! Sometimes feel like i'm talking a different language when I open girls on the dancefloor with the way they look at me sometimes and then don't reply and just look away lol
However, will concentrate on the positives. I appear to be able to create a certain amount of attraction IF i'm not feeling too stifled (like with the hairdresser which was my 1st set of the night) OR if maybe my friend opens a set. I just suck as opening i guess. But I find it super interesting how most of my friends (such as the guy who appears to be able to open sets well) don't seem to be able to lead the set anywhere. They can't make it 'fun/flirty' etc which I guess is what 'game' largely is
Been trying to find a wing or 2 recently. I want to see if my approach anxiety is any better when I'm with someone I don't really 'know' as it's something i've noticed before. (When I approached the beach girl last week, i had some stranger I met a few mins before as my wing and I felt much less AA. I ended up helping him get laid with a hot girl in fact! Not that he needed much help. He was a very good looking dude so she was instantly into him)
But yeah, no luck yet finding someone.
I drank so much that I seemed to drink myself sober, so I didn't come across as drunk lol.
She was only 19. Pretty but not as thin as i'd like. 5.5-6/10
Had lots of attraction but I was out in a different town making the logistics a nightmare as she lived out of town aswell so my only shot was a bang on the beach, but it's not all sand beaches like in the US here! haha. Pebbles cockblocked me a bit and then her friends found us fondling on the beach and dragged her away as they were all getting a train back too a different town (opposite direction to my town)
Last night I went too a different town again and ended up again getting super close to the lay after inviting some girls back to my friends place, but I got a bit cock blocked by her friend who wanted to go home and get a cab
Sucked because this would have been a good one!
24 and looked a bit like Kylie Jenner! 7.5/10
I followed her into the bathroom after we began flirting heavily and used the isolation to get our 1st makeout and then she closed the door and took a piss whilst I watched lol. Tiny bathroom and people outside so couldn't do much.
Then we made out and I pulled her into my friends lounge and I was rubbing her pussy and stuff but just as it was getting good her friend kept coming in and was like ''I've called a cab for us''.
I tried to convince her to stay. No dice. Tried to get her to invite me with her but she lived with her parents and it wasn't gonna happen.
I think maybe i should have just escalated SUPER fast and tried to bang her in the lounge as fast as possible lol.
If only my friend was interested in her friend, i'm confident i'd have been able to get the lay.
I'm happy with the outcome although it was another set that I didn't open so it always feels like less of an achievement.
It's clear that my game is better than most of my friends. If i'm able to get past the open (or if my friend opens well and then I join in) I appear to be able to do well.
My friend opened the set whilst I was at the bar and I saw he'd been in set for a few mins so it must be going OK.
I walked over and said ''Are you guys being nice to my friend?'' They were like ''we're always nice'' and I said ''Yeah, I can tell....except you, maybe!'' (pointing at the hottest one). All giggled and within a few mins i'm flirting with the 2 hottest ones and my friend is kind of stalling with the 2 less attractive ones.
Made a slight fuck up as I basically hit on both of the hot ones (a blonde and the kylie jenner dark haired one) so I think I made it a bit harder for myself with Kylie Jenner as I looked like a player (she called me one actually) and was like ''I saw you hitting on my friend. You just want to get laid and you don't care who with as now you're hitting on me!'' but I held frame and made it playful and I said ''Shhhhh.....(whilst cuddling her and putting my finger on her lips)...you're confused and you're aroused. You don't know what you're saying'' and she cracked up laughing. She tried to protest again and I said ''This is all just a dream anyway. It doesn't matter'' and she laughed again and I gave her a little kiss on the lips on the emotional spike.
Qualified her a bit with the usual bollox about me liking her personality (I always say this although it was actually true in this case. She was amusing) and then invited her back which is when the aforementioned fondling took place. She even stuck a finger in my butt!! That was a new one for me!! Really wish I was clever enough to try to move her into a bedroom with a lock on the door! I'm an idiot.
Other points of note were some nasty rejections and some very stifled interactions before I felt 'loose'.
I suffer from bad 'premature EJECTualtion' where I exit a set straight away if I she isn't showing tonnes of interest which is a mistake. Some sort of ego protection mechanism.
Happened with my first set where I made a comment about sobering up as i'd been waiting for my drink for so long too a 2-set who were also at the bar. They laughed.
I asked one what she was drinking. She told me and I said ''You can tell a lot about a girl by her drink''.
She said ''Oh yeah? What do I do then??''
At this point I just felt zero 'game' in my bones and guessed her job. She said ''nope. I'm a hairdresser''.
Now, this is where for some reason my mind just went blank.
I guess I was trying to think of something ''good' to say. Couldn't. Then I thought about asking a regular question about her being a hairdresser but decided this would bore her and then found myself saying nothing at all and then they both just turned away and talked among themselves lol. I just needed to fukking talk!!! Anything would have been better than nothing! grrr....My bad
Also a few instant rejections more or less on the dancefloor but that's almost become a guarantee so no big deal! Sometimes feel like i'm talking a different language when I open girls on the dancefloor with the way they look at me sometimes and then don't reply and just look away lol
However, will concentrate on the positives. I appear to be able to create a certain amount of attraction IF i'm not feeling too stifled (like with the hairdresser which was my 1st set of the night) OR if maybe my friend opens a set. I just suck as opening i guess. But I find it super interesting how most of my friends (such as the guy who appears to be able to open sets well) don't seem to be able to lead the set anywhere. They can't make it 'fun/flirty' etc which I guess is what 'game' largely is
Been trying to find a wing or 2 recently. I want to see if my approach anxiety is any better when I'm with someone I don't really 'know' as it's something i've noticed before. (When I approached the beach girl last week, i had some stranger I met a few mins before as my wing and I felt much less AA. I ended up helping him get laid with a hot girl in fact! Not that he needed much help. He was a very good looking dude so she was instantly into him)
But yeah, no luck yet finding someone.