Quote: (08-04-2018 04:48 PM)Rocha Wrote:
Ok. The problematic here is that many guys are boring, truly boring people, no matter their hobbies, professions, social status etc. By boring I mean that they don't click the right spots in women, that want fun and excitement. Specially nowadays...
Well, a bartender or Dj can be also boring as fuck, but that sometimes is not perceived at first sight because women automatically perceive them as fun, and why? Because barmen give them access to free drinks, and djs to private rooms with cocaine, thats why mostly they are perceived as fun. Thats the elephant in the room.
A professional guy can be fun too, just gotta give them access to the same stuff.
But most guys are just boring.
Few talk about this.
Well, that's sort of my point.
The bartender lives a life of entertainment. His life revolves around knowing the best bands, trendy food, parties, etc. He doesn't take his work home with him. That makes bartenders fun and easy to be around. I like having bartenders in my social circle for that reason. If given the choice, I'd usually rather spend a night drinking with a bartender than a lawyer. As would most women. Bartenders make their money by being entertaining, so they're fun to be around.
Bartenders also work around women, which gives them more access. if you're around women all the time, you're going to end up taking a few home. That's just the law of statistics.
Can professional men be "entertaining?" Yes, absolutely.
But it's not going to be through deep knowledge of Plutarch, cryptocurrency, or a reasoned discussion on the current state of the economy. It's going to be about modern music, restaurants, the parties you go to, and other "Seinfeld" talk.
Easy and light talk is what people find entertaining. And entertaining women gets you laid.