What helped me was realizing women have both personal responsibility and a vulnerability for absorbing the best and worst a culture throws at them.
If I meet a tatted thot with a nose ring and a bad attitude, I know she made bad choices and my boundaries won't allow me to even buy her a drink. At the same time, I understand her parents failed her and she's mired in a culture that enables and rewards the worst behavior.
So while my values are firm, I understand how a girl could get caught up in that shit and turn into a caricature of sjw western women. This means I harbor no resentment, bitterness or frustration with the state of women. It's in their nature to follow, and right now, there are few good leaders. I suppose this is a combination of understanding my own values while acknowledging that women, in general and as a whole, are the victims of a declining western empire - but a different kind of victim than the left claims women are. Women are the victims of the very people proclaiming how victimized they are.
There's a Buddhist saying which I like: To understand is to forgive. I have forgiven modern women because I understand them.
But that doesn't mean I take their shit.
If I meet a tatted thot with a nose ring and a bad attitude, I know she made bad choices and my boundaries won't allow me to even buy her a drink. At the same time, I understand her parents failed her and she's mired in a culture that enables and rewards the worst behavior.
So while my values are firm, I understand how a girl could get caught up in that shit and turn into a caricature of sjw western women. This means I harbor no resentment, bitterness or frustration with the state of women. It's in their nature to follow, and right now, there are few good leaders. I suppose this is a combination of understanding my own values while acknowledging that women, in general and as a whole, are the victims of a declining western empire - but a different kind of victim than the left claims women are. Women are the victims of the very people proclaiming how victimized they are.
There's a Buddhist saying which I like: To understand is to forgive. I have forgiven modern women because I understand them.
But that doesn't mean I take their shit.