Quote: (07-08-2018 07:50 AM)kross1989 Wrote:
ok me and this girl megan were talking for like 3 months going out alot going good etc. about 3 weeks ago she slows down texting. texts me 4 days later saying she is having family issues is super stressed out etc I'm like ok all good how about me and you go out Friday to take your mind off it. she completely ghosts me and doesnt respond at all. I text her saying no would be easier then standing me up. I've called her once texted her like 3 times since making sure she is doing good etc even hit her friend up saying hope megan is doing good tell her to text me etc to which she didnt respond. this was 2 months ago. she wont even open up my snapchat wont even look at my snapchats completely shut me the fuckkk out. what the hell is this all about? obviously were done but its confusing as shit. on top of that we booked a vacation to which we obviously didnt go because it was a 2 month ago. and I've been ghosted but good lord I am confused. she comes from a broken home. parents seperated mom a drunk brothers and other siblings on drugs etc. idk if maybe that somewhat explains her actions? I know we wont ever be together but the fact I got ghosted so hard is just shocking to me. thing is she lives 5 mins away and we frequent the same bars.
Quote: (07-09-2018 02:03 PM)kross1989 Wrote:
glad I came on this site. but she doesnt know I give a shit about her that's the thing I havent spoken to her in a month.
Uhhhh. Read your own OP....Guarantee you she does know. The problem is you gave her all the power and now in her mind youre the (or just another one*) " guy friend that got all creepy because Im not attracted to him ".
Quote: (07-09-2018 02:03 PM)kross1989 Wrote:
absolutly oneitis. I have fucked chicks since but idk man i developed an emotional connection with this one idk why or how but I just did.
I do...She's hot and you haven't fucked her. Girl game recognized
*It happens to all her nice guy orbiters. She only fucks bad boy / assholes that dont give a shit.
She cant help it...Attraction isn't a choice
Is any of this getting through?
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