As far as career/work/survival, times have changed. Years ago, one could take risks as far as career and /or business goals and IF they failed, they had factory job in their hometown waiting for them to work the next 20-30 years guaranteed....and oh by the way, you had benefits and a PENSION waiting for you when you retired. Well, there are very few companies with pension plans and nobody gets 20+ years at the same employer anymore, so the risk of falling flat on your face is now falling flat on your face. I think nowadays, one MUST have a Plan-B...and a Plan-C and Plan-D too.
Now that is my defense for the folks choosing security as far as career/work/survival.
For OTHER areas like approaching women and other non-survival things, why not go all out? As long as you can eat, drink and maintain your health (and family too), everything else should be approached with risk.
Now that is my defense for the folks choosing security as far as career/work/survival.
For OTHER areas like approaching women and other non-survival things, why not go all out? As long as you can eat, drink and maintain your health (and family too), everything else should be approached with risk.