Firstly, life SUCKS. Life is hell and being born on this shitty earth is the worst thing that could happen you. That said, you live in the best of best times since creation of human life, and yet you still complain because you cannot manage autopilot western society. Don't worry - I am too, but then I quickly remind myself that I'm even fucking lucky to be alive. If it was 100 years ago, 500 years ago, or hell, even during the fucking WW2 I would already be raped and my family slaughtered and raped to the gun-point (most likely).
So, just embrace what you got while you try to make your life here less miserable and try to take joy from simple things. I'm all in about self-improvement, eating healthy, working my ass-off, lifting and all this stuff. Fuck, I don't even have to time to go on a date and get laid except for late saturday and friday night, but just like Tyler Durden has said in Fight Club - self-improvement is indeed fucking masturbation, so imo don't rely only on improving yourself, just improve your life. Get out there and do what you do, quit your shit job which you don't like (although you are probably paid medium wage and that's more than enough to not fucking complain about not having enough without putting in the work in Norway btw), start doing things you actually want, and most important imo is to SPEED UP your life. Go on dates, meet people, fuck around, let the adventure carry you. Whatever. You have enough data to figure out what will work for you cause this is the most important point - figuring out what will work for YOU. Some people need to wake up at 6 am and go to bed at 10 pm every single day or they are going crazy. Others need to live in chaos and appreciate random elements in their life and get utterly bored when living around the clock. Do what you gotta do, don't let yourself stagnate and try to do as many things in life as you fucking like because you never know when you will not be able to do them anymore.
So, just embrace what you got while you try to make your life here less miserable and try to take joy from simple things. I'm all in about self-improvement, eating healthy, working my ass-off, lifting and all this stuff. Fuck, I don't even have to time to go on a date and get laid except for late saturday and friday night, but just like Tyler Durden has said in Fight Club - self-improvement is indeed fucking masturbation, so imo don't rely only on improving yourself, just improve your life. Get out there and do what you do, quit your shit job which you don't like (although you are probably paid medium wage and that's more than enough to not fucking complain about not having enough without putting in the work in Norway btw), start doing things you actually want, and most important imo is to SPEED UP your life. Go on dates, meet people, fuck around, let the adventure carry you. Whatever. You have enough data to figure out what will work for you cause this is the most important point - figuring out what will work for YOU. Some people need to wake up at 6 am and go to bed at 10 pm every single day or they are going crazy. Others need to live in chaos and appreciate random elements in their life and get utterly bored when living around the clock. Do what you gotta do, don't let yourself stagnate and try to do as many things in life as you fucking like because you never know when you will not be able to do them anymore.