Hi all,
I've recently acquired approach anxiety so severe that I can't even talk to girls in cafes, bars, clubs etc. I have talked to girls in these places in the past, closed several, and have a pretty high notch count ~30, but after going through a dry spell combined with living in a girl desert (major city in California), my mind somehow is convinced that every girl will just reject me. I think part of this stems from a few of my last approaches where the girls said I was ugly, not good looking etc, although I live in a snobby part of the city where many of the girls are stuck up.
My question is : Have any of you gotten returning approach anxiety, and how did you get rid of it again?
I've recently acquired approach anxiety so severe that I can't even talk to girls in cafes, bars, clubs etc. I have talked to girls in these places in the past, closed several, and have a pretty high notch count ~30, but after going through a dry spell combined with living in a girl desert (major city in California), my mind somehow is convinced that every girl will just reject me. I think part of this stems from a few of my last approaches where the girls said I was ugly, not good looking etc, although I live in a snobby part of the city where many of the girls are stuck up.
My question is : Have any of you gotten returning approach anxiety, and how did you get rid of it again?