Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
I think it's better to not mention specifics when arranging a date over text. Why? Because then you'll know if she rejected you or your specific date idea. Also, ask if she can come out instead of if she wants to come out because it's looks better
Bad idea. The only purpose of using the phone is to set dates. If you aren't mentioning specifics, you are just giving her additional reasons to flake. If a girl wants to see you, she's going to see you no matter what you suggest. You want to be specific so it's a definite date, and there's no room for misjudgment or misinterpretation.
Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
For example
"Do you have time tomorrow or the next day to hang out?
"Are you free to meet up this weekend?"
Better to ask what her schedule is like for the entire week. She'll give you a list of times, and you can go from there. I know these are examples, but generally this is really simple. Just ask for her schedule for the week and then work from there.
Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
Are in my opinion better than
"Do you want to go try that new restaurant tomorrow?
"Do you want to go to XYZ Bar on Saturday?"
You shouldn't be asking a girl what she wants to do. Do something you want to do, and invite her to come along. Asking a woman what she wants to do is an attraction killer. If you must, learn beforehand something that she likes and then invite her to come do said thing with you.
Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
She might dislike Chinese food. She might not like going out for drinks. There are many factors we don't know and can't account for, but this trick circumvents a few potential hang ups.
As said above. Women will use a "hangup" about a place because they don't like you enough. In which case, why are you trying to go out with them anyway?
Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
You really want to know "Do you want to go or not?" but asking if she's available makes her not reject you but instead blame the time, so you can ask again later, and appear better and make her feel more comfortable by comparison than if you had asked if she wanted come out that other night. A comfortable girl is more likely to say yes.
You should be assuming every women wants to see you, even if that's not true. Proceed accordingly. Feeling out a woman is a waste of time. Make the date, see if she agrees. If not? Move on my friend, plenty of fish in the sea.
Quote: (06-23-2018 12:51 PM)ShuaiGe Wrote:
If she says yes then you can propose an activity or not, this is a great position to be in. If you decide to propose an activity instead of leaving it a mystery, she's already agreed to meeting up, so you don't have to worry about her declining your date based on what you propose.
If before saying yes or no she asks what you want to do or where you want to go you at least have an indication of interest.
If she says no she's more likely to suggest a new time than she would a new activity, and if she doesn't suggest a new time then at least you know she rejected you instead of your date idea
The downside is that these lines don't tie in very well with many topics, possibly making them much more difficult to ask within natural conversation flow rather than seeming out of the blue
I love the idea of suggesting two times instead of one, a technique found in the fantastic text guide Roosh posted, read it here if you haven't already: http://www.bangpickupguide.com/misc/text...rooshv.pdf
Put in the volume and I promise you that a very consistent pattern will develop. You'll get a large percentage of women who just aren't interested, as well as a smaller percentage who are eager and enthusiastic. Better to stick to the enthusiastic ones, quickly set the date, and then get off the phone.
There's no need to over-complicate things, if you feel that "advanced game techniques" are needed to get a woman to agree to a date, either she's not interested enough, or you need to put in some more numbers.