Quote: (06-20-2018 11:30 PM)FullThrottleTX Wrote:
"What are you looking for" sounds like filler material because banter isn't interesting enough.
Dating meta on a first date/exchange means there's too much self-awareness on her part and you've not swooped her into your fun little world.
Agree with you on the case which was in person. it was a weak date performance from me and since then I have improved quite a bit but still got a long way to go.
However, when it comes to tinder, I've had such a wide mix of experiences that I find it hard to calibrate my approach.
Innocent looking girls that seem to want me to go full on sexual references etc soon as.
'Outgoing girls' that bring up sexual topics themselves but then punish you if you respond in similar way.
I've had two tinder bangs and about 10 tinder dates and most of these girls wanted at least some level of comfort built in msging. Hence why I sometimes seem to overdo it.
This might be because my profile is a bit tame and thus attract girls who have no idea what they want. I need 1 or 2 better face pics as atm, the dog in my first photo is probably the only reason some hot girls match with me. Tried some photo shoots out with a friend but they come out staged so waiting for some good holiday photos.