My guess is that as soon as a woman figures out you're happily married, it ruins the fantasy that she's secretly "the good one".
I've had women bang who knew I was in a relationship without me telling them anything at all about the relationship. However, they'd go sit and think about it, and ask probing questions from time to time, like they were making up stories about why I must hate my relationship.
I've also had women bang who knew I was not happy with whatever I was dealing with at that time. I generally know better than to complain, but sometimes shit slips out and if they smell blood in the water, they're in.
As soon as they start thinking I actually like my LTR/main and am just having fun, they get weird about it. I think it becomes more difficult to hamster away what they're doing and they start empathizing with the other woman.
I've had women bang who knew I was in a relationship without me telling them anything at all about the relationship. However, they'd go sit and think about it, and ask probing questions from time to time, like they were making up stories about why I must hate my relationship.
I've also had women bang who knew I was not happy with whatever I was dealing with at that time. I generally know better than to complain, but sometimes shit slips out and if they smell blood in the water, they're in.
As soon as they start thinking I actually like my LTR/main and am just having fun, they get weird about it. I think it becomes more difficult to hamster away what they're doing and they start empathizing with the other woman.
Hidey-ho, RVFerinos!