Quote: (06-18-2018 08:38 PM)Eugenics Wrote:
It's a shit test. Leave it open ended/deflect, treat it as a joke, or turn it around on them
"Nothing in particular, I want to see where things go"
"I've been searching for Waldo for like 8 years, I suck at looking for things"
"A cool girl I can get along with, you're chill right?"
I don't get that question often anymore, usually when a woman asks that question she's unsure of your intentions with her and she already has whatever stupid shit in her mindm And it's likely you haven't been assertive enough or shown enough intent. Whether it be taking her on a date or working out logistics to get her back to your pad. If you answer honestly you have a pretty good chance of fucking it up. It's an incredibly dumb and crass question, best to write it off, ignore it, say something that shit tests her back. You can avoid that question by showing intent subtlety. Women aren't completely stupid, it's Tinder, everyone there wants to bang, but it will set off their anti-slut defense if you come out and say that or imply it in the wrong way. I find it best to act like you're open to dating even if you're going to P&D the bitch and always push for the bang, at least until you have a bit better frame control and can flip their switches a bit better. At a certain point when she's wet and wanting your cock and down to come over and bang you can just say how you're going to fuck the shit out of her. I find working inside the dominant submissive paradigm is easiest and best for my personality but it may not be for yours.
After you bang you want her chasing you to be in a relationship with her use that leverage to maximize the amount of fun you can have with her but anyway that's deviating from the subject at hand
On the first girl, she def thought she wanted to just play around, whether that would last if she liked the guy, probably not but for a first date, she was pretty adamant on it. Unfortunately, I kinda lost frame after that as I wasn't expecting her to be so open in person.
Second girl we still just msging and she kept asking me personal questions which I always turned into jokes/silly answers. Then at one point she gave me a long list describing herself and asked me to do the same. I just said I was a mysterious guy that prefers to get to know people better in person.
She replied that being mysterious would get me nowhere with her so I told her to ask me 3 questions I would answer and then we will get drinks on X day to find out more. She agreed and then proceeded to ask the same question of what degree I do in 3 different variants LOL.
Anyway soon after she asked me the 'what you looking for right now' and I tried to make it silly: 'Literally right now? the TV remote control' but she was like 'No I'm serious, do you want to date or just play around?'
It's really annyoing when they ask that because you basically get a 50-50 chance of hitting what they want you to say.
Your 3rd suggestion might have just been both specific and vague enough to work but I didn't think of it, will try it in the future so thanks for that!