I’ve been in this situation quite a few times before and I actually don’t make a big deal out of it. I always get the bang the next time. Your total screw up is playing this whole shit just before she travels AND you go to her place. After travelling (foreign cock riding) the girl’s brain resets and you become nonexistent.
Given your situation, either you push for the bang that night or you excuse yourself, get out of there and do a total reset when you meet her again.
I wonder what happened in the morning? So many players are in situation like yours but manage to get the bang in the morning.
For LMR remember the formula: escalate – freeze out – escalate – freeze out. Keep at it to the point where one of you break. If she breaks you get the bang. If she doesn’t she is a professional time waster so don’t let yourself be played.
Which goes back to your question about her “logic”. Delete that word, replaces it by “emotion”. Most girls are time wasters because they don’t know what they want, they are just following their emotion. She certainly likes you enough to invite you over, but you fail to ignite the tingle, reasons why other posters have already said.
Given that her emotion fluctuates, you should have either gone all in or waited for a better time to strike (or not strike at all). Next her mentally and see if she reconnects after her travels. If she gives you the same shit while she has been giving it away for free to all dem’ foreign cocks cut that shit out of your life.
@bk19xsa :
You want to think logistics. Logistics = everything these days given the dating scene.
Your success = (Attraction + Comfort) x logistics
In your example clearly you take the girl’s offer of going to the place near you. Some may see this as losing frame, I just think it’s better logistics. Even so once there it’s very easy to reframe your interaction during your conversation and by venue changing (to your place eventually)
However if the girl turns out to just be too dominant or annoying, either she's a bitch or your game isn't strong enough to take frame. Don't waste your time.
Given your situation, either you push for the bang that night or you excuse yourself, get out of there and do a total reset when you meet her again.
I wonder what happened in the morning? So many players are in situation like yours but manage to get the bang in the morning.
For LMR remember the formula: escalate – freeze out – escalate – freeze out. Keep at it to the point where one of you break. If she breaks you get the bang. If she doesn’t she is a professional time waster so don’t let yourself be played.
Which goes back to your question about her “logic”. Delete that word, replaces it by “emotion”. Most girls are time wasters because they don’t know what they want, they are just following their emotion. She certainly likes you enough to invite you over, but you fail to ignite the tingle, reasons why other posters have already said.
Given that her emotion fluctuates, you should have either gone all in or waited for a better time to strike (or not strike at all). Next her mentally and see if she reconnects after her travels. If she gives you the same shit while she has been giving it away for free to all dem’ foreign cocks cut that shit out of your life.
@bk19xsa :
You want to think logistics. Logistics = everything these days given the dating scene.
Your success = (Attraction + Comfort) x logistics
In your example clearly you take the girl’s offer of going to the place near you. Some may see this as losing frame, I just think it’s better logistics. Even so once there it’s very easy to reframe your interaction during your conversation and by venue changing (to your place eventually)
However if the girl turns out to just be too dominant or annoying, either she's a bitch or your game isn't strong enough to take frame. Don't waste your time.
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