Am I the only one thinking "demand a grand tour of the house then laughingly neg the fuck out her living space"?
That would be my salvage backup in this instance. You have time to mentally fortify yourself before you go in, so it might be her court but the ball's in your end of that court.
Social game, right? So you both know the same people and she's unwittingly placed herself in a position of vulnerability. She wants to court attention without putting out and she believes putting herself in a safe space allows her to call the shots.
"Holy fuck. Does anyone else know how messy your room is?!"
Bada bing. Bada boom. The balance of power shifts. You are now a secret keeper and she has to provide an incentive for that.
The game continues. "I watch these detective shows, and it's always so cool how they can tell all this stuff about people from the little details in their house."
If you can keep it light and fun (ie: more fun that a stupid TV show) then once you flip her "my house, my rules" sense of safety into "oh my God, I've opened myself to being totally revealed" then there's a solid chance she's going to do anything in order to drag your attention away.
Do this right and she'll start the kino herself dragging you away from shit she doesn't want you to dig into, even if it's something as benign as a DVD collection that she claims "all belong to my flatmate!"
"Ohhhhh. Riiight. Let's start building a psychological profile of 'your flatmate', eh?"
"What are you upset about. I'm taking an interest. It turns out you really are a fascinating person."
At some point you hit the nitrous button. Wind your way to the bedroom on the pretext of examining her wall art (posters, whatever). Glance at the closet. Point. Eyes widen.
"Ohhhh. What can we find in here?"
If the Gods smile upon you then she's going to physically put herself between you and the closet. You're the big, stupid dog that won't listen, right? She has to use all her force (kino) to stop you.
After that moment you get serious. You look her in the eye, you the hunter, she the prey, and say "distract me".
Of course most of this scenario is hypothetical. The details will vary but like all game it's up to you to take the fundamentals of manipulation and adapt to the circumstance as it evolves.
She brought you to her fortress as a subordinate. When you inverse the balance of power then attraction/submission will follow.
And remember. Better to be kicked out for being a wolf than be a dog and have your balls snipped. In social game a single loss can be devastating if a women subdues your sexuality. Any other women in that herd are not going to fuck a guy if Becky beat him down. On the other hand being kicked out is like getting disqualified. It's marked down as a loss but in truth nobody really knows who the better man was, and other contenders will still be eager to find out.
That would be my salvage backup in this instance. You have time to mentally fortify yourself before you go in, so it might be her court but the ball's in your end of that court.
Social game, right? So you both know the same people and she's unwittingly placed herself in a position of vulnerability. She wants to court attention without putting out and she believes putting herself in a safe space allows her to call the shots.
"Holy fuck. Does anyone else know how messy your room is?!"
Bada bing. Bada boom. The balance of power shifts. You are now a secret keeper and she has to provide an incentive for that.
The game continues. "I watch these detective shows, and it's always so cool how they can tell all this stuff about people from the little details in their house."
If you can keep it light and fun (ie: more fun that a stupid TV show) then once you flip her "my house, my rules" sense of safety into "oh my God, I've opened myself to being totally revealed" then there's a solid chance she's going to do anything in order to drag your attention away.
Do this right and she'll start the kino herself dragging you away from shit she doesn't want you to dig into, even if it's something as benign as a DVD collection that she claims "all belong to my flatmate!"
"Ohhhhh. Riiight. Let's start building a psychological profile of 'your flatmate', eh?"
"What are you upset about. I'm taking an interest. It turns out you really are a fascinating person."
At some point you hit the nitrous button. Wind your way to the bedroom on the pretext of examining her wall art (posters, whatever). Glance at the closet. Point. Eyes widen.
"Ohhhh. What can we find in here?"
If the Gods smile upon you then she's going to physically put herself between you and the closet. You're the big, stupid dog that won't listen, right? She has to use all her force (kino) to stop you.
After that moment you get serious. You look her in the eye, you the hunter, she the prey, and say "distract me".
Of course most of this scenario is hypothetical. The details will vary but like all game it's up to you to take the fundamentals of manipulation and adapt to the circumstance as it evolves.
She brought you to her fortress as a subordinate. When you inverse the balance of power then attraction/submission will follow.
And remember. Better to be kicked out for being a wolf than be a dog and have your balls snipped. In social game a single loss can be devastating if a women subdues your sexuality. Any other women in that herd are not going to fuck a guy if Becky beat him down. On the other hand being kicked out is like getting disqualified. It's marked down as a loss but in truth nobody really knows who the better man was, and other contenders will still be eager to find out.
The public will judge a man by what he lifts, but those close to him will judge him by what he carries.