I use them sparingly so they don't come off as fake. It difers for pickup and LTRs though.
That said, I never use negs. Your mileage may vary. I find they kill my vibe of keeping things fun and light.
With pickup, what I usually do is ask a lot of open ended questions, and my compliments are along that lines of "That's so cool!" Eg:
"What's the best vacation you ever took?"
"We went to New Zealand and saw penguins two years ago..."
"Oh wow that must have been so awesome! Do you have pictures?"
Once we are banging, I'll throw around some compliments like "You look smoking hot in that dress" or "Babe, know what I love about you? You look hot when we wake up and have no makeup on. I'm a lucky guy."
Basically, I avoid physical complinents during pickup and use them here and there for girls I'm banging.
Also, compliments have to come off as authentic. "You have the most beautiful eyes" "Your smile is amazing"... that kind of stuff is generic. "That dress looks incredible on you" or "The new haircut makes you even more beautiful" goes so much farther.
That said, I never use negs. Your mileage may vary. I find they kill my vibe of keeping things fun and light.
With pickup, what I usually do is ask a lot of open ended questions, and my compliments are along that lines of "That's so cool!" Eg:
"What's the best vacation you ever took?"
"We went to New Zealand and saw penguins two years ago..."
"Oh wow that must have been so awesome! Do you have pictures?"
Once we are banging, I'll throw around some compliments like "You look smoking hot in that dress" or "Babe, know what I love about you? You look hot when we wake up and have no makeup on. I'm a lucky guy."
Basically, I avoid physical complinents during pickup and use them here and there for girls I'm banging.
Also, compliments have to come off as authentic. "You have the most beautiful eyes" "Your smile is amazing"... that kind of stuff is generic. "That dress looks incredible on you" or "The new haircut makes you even more beautiful" goes so much farther.