Quote: (05-23-2018 07:56 AM)carter Wrote:
Im had a similair situation. Im a virgin too and met a girl on tinder said she was horny, so we met up. Couldnt go to her house cus she still lives with parents so we could only go outside. Thing is she showed no initiative whatsoever, not even sucking me off. We also didn't bang because it was too risky outside.
Should I meet her again when im home alone and go for the bang? How do I make her show initiative?
I think 95% of the time. You as the man will have to initiate it. Girls can only drop hints at best, but without proper game to pull it off you won't be able to lead her till the bang (and you have logistics, cock blocker friends, group sets to think about). And if your game is really bad you'll trip yourself over just by talking and her intentional (or unintentional) shet tests and make things awkward for you and her.
I almost never find a case where I wasn't the one leading the interaction till the bang -- exception is when with friend with benefits, girlfriend: someone who you banged before and knows you well already. She can initiate first.