- Smoking
- Being single and owning a big dog in a large city, or several cats, and talking about how her pets are her family / boyfriend
- Constant use of cursing
- Talking about sex openly (exception: unless it's dirty talk to me. not "I fucked this one guy and blah blah blah")
- No female friends / no friends / all male friends
- Openly atheist / hardcore feminist
- Has worked as a stripper or an escort
- Engages in male hobbies like jiu jitsu, Crossfit, etc. (what this means is those are the guys they want to fuck, and usually the ones at the top of the food chain).
- Makes negative comments about you when you're out. ("You should hold the door more." "That suit looks cheap." "I don't like it when you wear your work boots out." "You need to not be on your phone." I have an idea. How about you need to shut the fuck up?)
- Puts everything on Instagram, including "sexy" pictures and tons of selfies
- Only wants to do expensive shit and go to fancy restaurants. (No, we do not need to spend $200 every weekend on dinner; I'm much happier grilling hotdogs over a campfire. Sorry if that doesn't impress your Instagram followers.)
- Doesn't have a gym membership
- Eats like shit
- Very "protective" of her phone (i.e., it's always upside down, and on lockdown. Not that I care to inspect her phone or anything, but when she treats it like it's a top secret document, it means she's fucking 15 other dudes)
I'm pretty quick to write off girls with pretty much any of these red flags. The only exceptions are the gym membership (she can go to my gym), and male hobbies (some women like to come to BJJ with me and learn self defense.)
- Being single and owning a big dog in a large city, or several cats, and talking about how her pets are her family / boyfriend
- Constant use of cursing
- Talking about sex openly (exception: unless it's dirty talk to me. not "I fucked this one guy and blah blah blah")
- No female friends / no friends / all male friends
- Openly atheist / hardcore feminist
- Has worked as a stripper or an escort
- Engages in male hobbies like jiu jitsu, Crossfit, etc. (what this means is those are the guys they want to fuck, and usually the ones at the top of the food chain).
- Makes negative comments about you when you're out. ("You should hold the door more." "That suit looks cheap." "I don't like it when you wear your work boots out." "You need to not be on your phone." I have an idea. How about you need to shut the fuck up?)
- Puts everything on Instagram, including "sexy" pictures and tons of selfies
- Only wants to do expensive shit and go to fancy restaurants. (No, we do not need to spend $200 every weekend on dinner; I'm much happier grilling hotdogs over a campfire. Sorry if that doesn't impress your Instagram followers.)
- Doesn't have a gym membership
- Eats like shit
- Very "protective" of her phone (i.e., it's always upside down, and on lockdown. Not that I care to inspect her phone or anything, but when she treats it like it's a top secret document, it means she's fucking 15 other dudes)
I'm pretty quick to write off girls with pretty much any of these red flags. The only exceptions are the gym membership (she can go to my gym), and male hobbies (some women like to come to BJJ with me and learn self defense.)