[Moma]

(03-13-2012 12:04 AM)Urban Renaissance Man Wrote:  

Again, that's how I feel as well for the most part. I was just amazed she'd settle for someone she so clearly felt was unattractive. But then I figured that maybe over time, hanging out and with friendship, feelings began to grow. Kinda like we you hear girls say sometime, "he grew on me." That must happen sometimes because we have all heard women say that.

I think she just settled. As a lizard gets older, her options diminish..especially if she has kids..and she knows this. She settled for this beta provider.

I agree with the original posters, in the time he spent waiting and pining for her (assuming he did and wasn't banging other reptiles during the wait process), he could have been working on himself and banging himself up to par.

I don't believe that waiting is ever a good idea. I have tried and tested both theories and going out to hunt for fresh meat ALWAYS beats waiting a lizard out. Even if she is the 'one'.
I speak right now to a lizard friend who has spent many days pining about a man who broke her heart. However, she constantly prospects new cats during this process and if she does get laid, she won't even count that lay as anything and continue to act as if she had 'saved' herself during the wait process for the mail.

This is one of the most old fashioned lizards I know. Even her peers and family members tell her to move on (bang other men). So my point is, if even the most smitten and sucker-ised lizards bang during the wait, why should a man wait out a lizard?