[Kieran]

It's more than just having options; plenty of men have options but still live in scarcity, worrying that they'll lose them, seeing another man's success as their loss, etc. On the other hand if you have no women it is more difficult to have an abundance mindset. It really comes down to understanding how somebody with an abundance mindset thinks, and getting out and putting in the work until it comes. For somebody just starting out, or coming out of a relationship, you really do just have to claw your way up, but then at some point you reach a tipping point and get onto an upwards spiral of success.