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(04-08-2018 05:34 AM)subterfuge Wrote:  

Shortly after her friend drags her away to dance, but within about 2 minutes, I see her kissing some really good looking dude!! Grrr.....Not gonna like, this annoyed the hell out of me

All he had to do was just stand there looking pretty and she basically pounced on him! I wonder if I maybe further helped his case by spiking her buying temperature for him, but then I can't really blame myself for that, because it's not as though I didn't TRY to go for the makeout. But she rejected the kiss.

You did the best you could do. You are not responsible for your genetic make-up and other factors you can't control for. Also, we don't know what happened next. Kissing is a low value currency these days. Maximise the factors you can control for. Justice as fairness is a wonderful concept but it scarcely applies to biological world (if at all). However, living in the civilised world, hearing about equality, justice, fairness and similar concepts, we begin to demand the world and people acting in the world to act just. We begin, predominantly unintentionally, form in our minds The Just World Hypothesis.

Sadly, the mating world doesn't mirror our expectations and doesn't "restore the equilibrium" of the work you've put it. Sometimes you can put it in spades and still will get nothing out of it, or even worse. The only laws that are upheld at all times (at least on the planet earth) are the laws of thermodynamics: new energy can't be created and the entropy of a system always increases.